Yes they are male, but the whole
idea of incel is that they involuntarily can not have sex WITH females
my take on it is that people are only focusing on “ugly” males trying to get with “normal” females, when in reality this is only a myopic view being created by “normal” females who have gained power through feminist pussy power.
most people are not so narcissistic that they need to tote their guns whenever they have sex, and if anything possible value different traits of attraction than the mainstream culture