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1 votes RE: I need closure

Closure is a horrible thing. I want to bring our jobs back to the USA. If you close down, there will be tariffs.

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0 votes RE: I need closure

Closure is a horrible thing. I want to bring our jobs back to the USA. If you close down, there will be tariffs.

 You’re fugging right closure is horrible 

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0 votes RE: I need closure
bleary said: 

You don't want closure, you want your desires. 

 Oh is that so TC? Perhaps u want me to continue for your entertainment 

It'd be nice to see you actually get over Chapo, the real form of closure. 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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0 votes RE: I need closure
bleary said: 

You don't want closure, you want your desires. 

 Oh is that so TC? Perhaps u want me to continue for your entertainment 

It'd be nice to see you actually get over Chapo, the real form of closure. 

 THIS IS REALLY MEAN, TC. I DON’T KNOW WHAT YOUR ISSUE IS. I HOPE U GET EVERYTHING THAT IS COMING TO YOU, NATHAN =)

 

 

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0 votes RE: I need closure
bleary said: 
bleary said: 

You don't want closure, you want your desires. 

 Oh is that so TC? Perhaps u want me to continue for your entertainment 

It'd be nice to see you actually get over Chapo, the real form of closure. 

 THIS IS REALLY MEAN, TC. I DON’T KNOW WHAT YOUR ISSUE IS. I HOPE U GET EVERYTHING THAT IS COMING TO YOU, NATHAN =)

You won't find closure until you rip that bandage. I struggle with both change and closure too, but not for years like this. 

It has to hurt, you have to let it hurt, or you will just keep running in the same circles as you self-indulge in mental self-harm and desperate acts to try to get him back. 

At this point I'd argue you're hurting yourself, more so than anything around you otherwise is, as your way of avoiding a pain you believe on some level to be worse than what you're otherwise perpetuating. 

If you can't allow yourself to go through the pain, there can't be any growth and you'll remain trapped like this. If you really want closure instead of just "what you want out of life", then... yeah, it sucks, I'm sorry but it kinda has to to stop sucking later like paying emotional rent. 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
last edit on 11/20/2019 5:33:05 PM
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0 votes RE: I need closure

if 👏 u 👏 want 👏 closure 👏 then 👏 start 👏 with 👏 closing 👏 ur 👏 legs 😤

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0 votes RE: I need closure
bleary said: 
bleary said: 

You don't want closure, you want your desires. 

 Oh is that so TC? Perhaps u want me to continue for your entertainment 

It'd be nice to see you actually get over Chapo, the real form of closure. 

 THIS IS REALLY MEAN, TC. I DON’T KNOW WHAT YOUR ISSUE IS. I HOPE U GET EVERYTHING THAT IS COMING TO YOU, NATHAN =)

You won't find closure until you rip that bandage. I struggle with both change and closure too, but not for years like this. 

It has to hurt, you have to let it hurt, or you will just keep running in the same circles as you self-indulge in mental self-harm and desperate acts to try to get him back. 

At this point I'd argue you're hurting yourself, more so than anything around you otherwise is, as your way of avoiding a pain you believe on some level to be worse than what you're otherwise perpetuating. 

If you can't allow yourself to go through the pain, there can't be any growth and you'll remain trapped like this. If you really want closure instead of just "what you want out of life", then... yeah, it sucks, I'm sorry but it kinda has to to stop sucking later like paying emotional rent. 

 Does anybody else here have trouble understanding what Turncoat is saying there? I understood about 50% which is to say up until about get him back, then in last two “paragraphs” it lurches into meaningless fluff 😂

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0 votes RE: I need closure

they basically said all your obsessive/delusional behavior is a defense mechanism to maintain your ego, that the result is an emotional stagnation that keeps you from being the best you, and that you have to do something about it before its too late

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0 votes RE: I need closure

the best closure is closing your legs ya gotta agree with xadem there

last edit on 11/21/2019 12:58:33 AM
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