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Edvard said: 

Turncoat said: 

It still seemed malicious to me instead of helpful, and seeing you move on from that to attacking Turquie over her looks makes your image that much less attractive to me. 

If anyone wants to attack Turq for any reason, the best way to do it is through her looks. They are obviously what matter to Turq the most, and her body image issues are her weakness.

Protip: You don't attack people based on what matters to you, but on what matters to them.

You don't even see the problem with the shame enforcing behaviors, so how are you supposed to understand the problem here? 

spite said: 

TC is just kidding though. 

They can never tell which is which, which is strange as I'd have thought it was more obvious?

So you say you were kidding.

[my responses] are also honest; I do find her personality and tastes gross. 

Except you weren't.

I didn't say "kidding", I said "exaggerated". I was responding to him in general and correcting that I actually believe it in spite of the exaggerated approach. 

Body shaming's not really that unexpected, but I have always found the behavior to be a petty one-up. It's not too different from when people in an argument on Discord start sending photos of themselves to "win". 

Turncoat said:

[my responses] are also honest; I do find her personality and tastes gross.

 So you give shit to PP here for reposting the picture of a fat chick who already made it public, but you comment nothing on how "GROSS" Jim is for posting nudes of a sleeping/drugged member of this community.

Then to make everything more ironic, you attack PP for not picking on "inconvenient targets"

If dishonesty, cowardice and hypocrisy were painful, you'd be sporting a permanent boner.

LOL i love the way i look so that's actually a super ineffective way to try to get to me. Also I have retired from e-hoeing recently and have made this clear many times now and have no interest in any form of male or female sexual attention on this forum or on discord I already get more than enough from Slay and from men I know outside of this circle but even so I dont care about that at all, my opinion of myself is the only thing that has ever mattered to me and it's pretty damn high lol not going to lie im a little too obsessed with myself to the point where I'm basically in love with myself

aubrieta said: 

LOL i love the way i look so that's actually a super ineffective way to try to get to me. Also I have retired from e-hoeing recently and have made this clear many times now and have no interest in any form of male or female sexual attention on this forum or on discord I already get more than enough from Slay and from men I know outside of this circle but even so I dont care about that at all, my opinion of myself is the only thing that has ever mattered to me and it's pretty damn high lol not going to lie im a little too obsessed with myself to the point where I'm basically in love with myself

user22212 said:

Self esteem is how highly you think of yourself, how confident you are in your abilities and in what you can achieve. This is different from narc "self-esteem" because a narc just talks the talk, repeating mantras such as "I'm the motherfucking best there is" without actually believing that deep inside.

They try really hard to believe they're the best, and really want to believe it, it just doesn't happen, that's why criticism affects them way more than it would a genuinely confident person.

Example:

Random Nigger: "You're dumb"

Confident Person: Random simple reply brushing them off or plainly ignoring them (Thinking to themselves: what a jackass)

A confident person may sometimes simply prove the critic wrong if they feel like it, and call it a win.

Narc: Overcompensating reply/whatever (thinking to themselves: how dare he insult ME)

A narc must prove the critic wrong, or it will eat at them.

 

Narcs are basically trying really hard to fake real confidence, they may become skilled enough to fake it properly, but deep down inside it's not gonna be genuine.