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nervousness around cute women


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i have no problems making moves and taking it forward with slutty or not so cute women.

with girls with angelic / loliish/ sweet faces though, i idealize them and barely manage to make a convo and nervous as shit.

what can i do?

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Man I dunno, I'm used to people coming to me instead of the other way around. 

Would she seem less attractive if she wasn't being idealized (half-rhetorical, half-curious question). 

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Man I dunno, I'm used to people coming to me instead of the other way around. 

Would she seem less attractive if she wasn't being idealized (half-rhetorical, half-curious question). 

 yes.

i feel like the cute and shy girls are too pure for me or smth idk

2:48Spatial Mind The guy was sticking his dick in an infants mouth, it was so fucking disturbing
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Man I dunno, I'm used to people coming to me instead of the other way around. 

Would she seem less attractive if she wasn't being idealized (half-rhetorical, half-curious question). 

 yes.

i feel like the cute and shy girls are too pure for me or smth idk

She'd likely become easier to talk to if you idealized her less, but then you'd also see less reason to try for her in the first place. 🤷

Maybe that shyness can be part of your charm. 

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last edit on 10/24/2019 8:10:37 AM
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For me I'm just dialed in on the task at hand and executing. No time for self-doubt 

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very sociopathic of you slay

2:48Spatial Mind The guy was sticking his dick in an infants mouth, it was so fucking disturbing
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Just continue going forward even tho you sound nervous. The cool ones will like it. Real recognize real. How would you rather meet your soulmate, them using some bullshit they read in a magazine on you, or by getting panic-vomited on by them? I know what I'd choose.

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Slay said: 

For me I'm just dialed in on the task at hand and executing. No time for self-doubt 

Yeah, and look where that got you. 

Yet more proof that doubt is a healthy thing to have. 

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Slay said: 

For me I'm just dialed in on the task at hand and executing. No time for self-doubt 

Yeah, and look where that got you. 

Yet more proof that doubt is a healthy thing to have. 

 You can't use a different context to aid your point, they're not similar. 

 

Even if it did, Op needs less doubt, not more 

last edit on 10/24/2019 7:51:59 PM
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Slay said: 
Slay said: 

For me I'm just dialed in on the task at hand and executing. No time for self-doubt 

Yeah, and look where that got you. 

Yet more proof that doubt is a healthy thing to have. 

 You can't use a different context to aid your point, they're not similar. 

 

Even if it did, Op needs less doubt, not more 

 Im sure your cellmate enjoyed your intense focus on executing the large task in your hand ;)

2:48Spatial Mind The guy was sticking his dick in an infants mouth, it was so fucking disturbing
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