Its the number 1 thing I wish I could free myself from
at least I found the best target for me possible tho finally
relationships that idealize and then devalue over and over again got to be tough on everyone
can you get counseling for this?
No but Sam can take it he's a big guy
What does it really mean when you idolize/devalue someone ?
Are they most dear to you ?
the person I love the most is always the person i hate the most too unfortunately
What does it really mean when you idolize/devalue someone ?
Are they most dear to you ?
the person I love the most is always the person i hate the most too unfortunately
I got one of those. Right now she's devaluing cause I never called on her Birthday.
She'll come back after several months of silence and I'll respond cause she's an interesting creature, then when she doesn't hoover me she'll stabilize until the next time.
This time I seem like the bad guy, but i know how she is. Calling her on that day woukd have her drop yet another scripted shit test, followed up with yet another round of see ya in a long time.