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Oh god are we really at the point of hugbox topics again already?

Seriously people, man up and do some roasting. 

Edit: Oh, I thought this was meant to contrast the "Say 3 bad things about the person above you" topic. My bad. 

On topic, three things that make people worth it: 

o They are entertaining. 

o They aren't trying to fuck with my day. 

o They're willing to do "Real Talks" instead of just vapid hollow crap. 


What makes me let them go: 
It, takes, a lot. I don't even know most of the time, just that eventually something occurs in their choices of behavior where I can no longer take them seriously as people. I make a lot of excuses for people, a lot, as people can't help but be themselves, but past a point it becomes too much. 

Typically though, people tend to leave me instead of the other way around. 

A sense of humour, it is a dealbreaker for me if someone lacks one 

Empathy is a refreshing trait 

Responsibility because that tends to rub off on me 

• we can talk about controversy, taboo, things that the other person doesn't like, but remain civil and even if neither of us moves an inch in our stances, we dont care, as long as its not stupid
• you can be trusted to not be a little faggot (also known as pathetic scum)
• you don't need me talking to you for months and still be friendly when we do

edit:

if they are too annoying because they are stupid or too needy, i get away

if they can't be trusted, then its not worth dealing with it

Good said: 

• you don't need me talking to you for months and still be friendly when we do

 

edit:

if they are too annoying because they are stupid or too needy, i get away

 Yes this goes for me too, I was trying to think of a way to formulate it and somehow ended up with the all-encompassing 'responsibility'. But definitely, being okay with not talking daily is a big factor 

Reasons to keep people around:

- They're useful to me

- They're an interesting archetype of person

- ???

The reasons to let go:

- They stop being useful

- I'm satisfied with how much I figured them out

three reasons to keep a friend around

trustworthy

competent

intelligent

if you are lacking in one of these areas, we will soon part company.

this reminds me of a guy i used to know. every time i would get around this guy he would break something of mine. the guy was accident prone. after the third time of him breaking some shit of mine. ditched. cant have people around that are hurting themselves and breaking my shit where i go. cant have it.

 failed in the competency area

this thread should have been more popular

they're independent and strong; I can rely on them but they generally don't rely on me too much

they have similar values to me (eg intelligence, humour, forgiveness, etc)

they're understanding and accepting of me or my behaviour