tehrs no escape i just manplated u agen
by manipulating people you also open the door to get manipulated right back
also you're ultimately playing yourself but, that's harder to explain to muggles.
if you read this book "hardwiring happiness" you'll start to get it. that's only the beginning fundamental parts of it though. it goes much deeper than just neurochemistry, and neuropsychology.
and if you believe in the law of attraction, or karma, anything along those lines.
you're double playing yourself.
there may be an immediate benefit in manipulating someone but there is a greater philosophical lesson to be learned by the act of not doing so that can't be taught and can only be learned from experiencing it.
there is a detriment in certain behaviors, and I think that we've understood this as a human race for a long time and people attempted to share about it and teach it mainly through religions.
There is a greater good that can be had through a life lived adhered to wiser principles, rather than acting like a hedonist anarchist...
What ultimate good are you serving yourself by acting this way. Really think about it.
You have to be reasonable enough to understand you have to live life on life's terms. And if you don't get it initially, life will repeatedly show you that until you get it. Some don't, and they die from the stress trying to outrun it. They think they're outrunning it, but really you're just digging yourself a deeper and deeper hole, and depriving yourself of the amazing opportunity for something more enriching and peaceful than whatever the fuck you're chasing after.
by manipulating people you also open the door to get manipulated right back
also you're ultimately playing yourself but, that's harder to explain to muggles.
it's neuroscience.
and if you believe in the law of attraction, or karma, anything along those lines.
you're double playing yourself.
there may be an immediate benefit in manipulating someone but there is a greater lesson to be learned by the act of not doing so that can't be taught and can only be learned from experiencing it.
there is a detriment in certain behaviors, and I think that we've understood this as a human race for a long time and people attempted to share about it and teach it mainly through religions.
There is a greater good that can be had through a life lived adhered to wiser principles, rather than acting like a hedonist anarchist...
What ultimate good are you serving yourself by acting this way. Really think about it.
You have to be reasonable enough to understand you have to live life on life's terms. And if you don't get it initially, life will repeatedly show you that until you get it. Some don't, and they die from the stress trying to outrun it. They think they're outrunning it, but really you're just digging yourself a deeper and deeper hole, and depriving yourself of the amazing opportunity for something more enriching and peaceful than whatever the fuck you're chasing after.
shut up you whore
these are also some good foundational understanding blocks:
https://www.netflix.com/title/80063658
and ultimately after that point you have to seek knowledge to further your own growth and expansion elsewhere, to really start to get what I'm talking about philosophically.