She spends more time with her friends than you now
never talks on the phone with you anymore
comes home later than usual
doesn’t suggest dates or doesn’t want to spend time with you anymore
no cute lovey dovey stuff anymore (or sexy stuff)
arguing over nothing or just being like “I have no time for your shit bye” and just like over you and just closing the door
ignores you a lot basically
randomly gets a hair cut she didn’t tell you about or another drastic change/large money drop and then posts about it on Instagram or tells all their friends about it but doesn’t share their excitement about it with you anymore
doesn’t tell you plans for their life or personal things anymore about their life
just goes off and perhsss their own thing and their own plans and doesn’t include you in them
stopped posting you on all social media, may even remove you from it, unfriend you or take down their social media
unusual changes in routines or normal habits, especially regarding how they interact with you
Not making a big deal about birthdays or events, just letting it pass by like it meant nothing to them
ignores you on their phone a lot
talks about moving away a lot of places they want to “go away” but then doesn’t express including you in those idea at all lol
basically tells you nothing gojng going on in their life or their feelings/thoughts anymore
you may get the sense they’ve “changed” or their “different” somehow but you can’t put your finger on it what it even is, you just know
new tats or piercings they just went out and did and didn’t tell you, spontaneously. Unless this is a norm for them, it’s sayinf something. People do this when they’re in transitional states of processing something or changing something a lot, or to deal with emotional shifting tides and a feeling of lack of control, or seeking validating in oneself
goes and get drunk with people lol believe it or not this is a classic one. Coming home hammered all the sudden, if this wasn’t a norm before
they may start organizing their stuff differently... like.. almost in a “packing up” sort of fashion. Keeping their stuff very separate from yours.... cleaning out draws and closets or suddenly rearranging the room, cleaning out things they haven’t touched in forever like under the bed. Taking down all their decorations. Bad bad sign man lol
