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you need to try to gain entire self-reliance  if you don't already have it, and cut them out of your life. They are merely toxic baggage that will always try to belittle you and grind you down. 


edit: i'd recommend cutting all forms of contact to them, moving somewhere else so they don't know where you went, and just completely be gone, but i understand that can be challenging.

Sintetika said: 

you need to try to gain entire self-reliance  if you don't already have it, and cut them out of your life. They are merely toxic baggage that will always try to belittle you and grind you down. 


edit: i'd recommend cutting all forms of contact to them, moving somewhere else so they don't know where you went, and just completely be gone, but i understand that can be challenging.

 Who's going to pay her rent? 

AliceInWonderland said: 

Sintetika said: 

you need to try to gain entire self-reliance  if you don't already have it, and cut them out of your life. They are merely toxic baggage that will always try to belittle you and grind you down. 


edit: i'd recommend cutting all forms of contact to them, moving somewhere else so they don't know where you went, and just completely be gone, but i understand that can be challenging.

 Who's going to pay her rent? 

 well that's why im saying she needs to gain self-reliance

I agree, I want to move to California when I have the means. That’s been the plan all along 

I’ve been trying to run away since I was four like lol that desire never went away either. I continued to try pretty much consecutively every year after that too 

My whole life I’ve been trying to get out from under the shadow but it’s much more than that like it goes beyond the physical ties 

which are easy to surmount and I’m not worried about anymore as much, like I said- it’s all good. 

in this thread I’m more talking about the mental prison that psychological abuse and manipulation neglect maltreatment can be and getting out from under that shadow and healing totally from that in a way you can finally find peace with yourself is more important and more challenging than just getting out from under the physiological shadow 

so this is how I cope with it is by venting lol and it allows me to step outside of it and be aware of what is happening and how I should react to it 

and it’s a way to feel fine after things like this happen so I’m not letting it control or affect me anhmore

its my way of consoling myself and reminding myself of who I am and my value and my worth and what important. And how to be happy in your core despite circumstances that aren’t always perfectly ideal like, someone having a shit fit in your ear via phone. 

Its just a way to be okay and remain stable in myself and feel okay, you know? 

Sintetika said: 

AliceInWonderland said: 

Sintetika said: 

you need to try to gain entire self-reliance  if you don't already have it, and cut them out of your life. They are merely toxic baggage that will always try to belittle you and grind you down. 


edit: i'd recommend cutting all forms of contact to them, moving somewhere else so they don't know where you went, and just completely be gone, but i understand that can be challenging.

 Who's going to pay her rent? 

 well that's why im saying she needs to gain self-reliance

Yeah, I know. 

But seriously, who's going to pay her rent? 

Cope's starting to feel like the word of the month lately...

AliceInWonderland said: 

Sintetika said: 

AliceInWonderland said: 

Sintetika said: 

you need to try to gain entire self-reliance  if you don't already have it, and cut them out of your life. They are merely toxic baggage that will always try to belittle you and grind you down. 


edit: i'd recommend cutting all forms of contact to them, moving somewhere else so they don't know where you went, and just completely be gone, but i understand that can be challenging.

 Who's going to pay her rent? 

 well that's why im saying she needs to gain self-reliance

Yeah, I know. 

But seriously, who's going to pay her rent? 

 I don't have a clue, I'm saying it'd be nice for her to be able to maintain a stable job and pay for her own rent, whether or not she's capable, I don't know all the aspects of it, I assume not (no offense)

I'm just like smiling rn because, like this thread is about, laughing about the situation but you guys are failing to see why I find it so funny. 

Maybe this will help you see what I'm talking about, or my POV

My parents are the guy jumping the fence, struggling. Acting all intense and "FBI AND SHIT" 

And then I'm the dude that just walks through the fence 

There's absolutely nothing to be stressed about. Is what I'm trying to say, you guys don't start stressing too xD please lol 

what I'm trying to say is, it's all good lol and like the bitching I got for breakfast this morning from my mom was, uncalled for and unnecessary and just plain extra. 

and im just sitting there listening to it like ???

was there a problem though??? no?? 

okay. have a good day sir llol

she's creating problems and arguments out of thin air :P