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I'm just saying that your running away isn't strength. 

While there's many reasons for someone to leave or otherwise take a break, you're giving yourself more credit than is due this early along. 

You can't take criticism, and this place is criticism central. You even called how people treat you abuse

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TC, the goal of life isnt to become so unsensitized to abuse that you turn into a Monster, and that is exactly why I'm leaving. I dont like the person I was becoming when being an active part of sc was one of my main goals 

 I stand by this quote.

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This isnt a place of mentally well people TC. It is normal and healthy for people to not want an excess of criticism

 

not only that, but the criticism I am receiving is from a bunch of mentally unwell and autistic people. Its not exactly constructive criticism. its destructive. That's the problem

last edit on 10/2/2019 9:41:38 PM
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It's not monsterous desensitization to find tenacity and willpower from a den of critics. Do I seem like I lack feelings? 

I'm not endorsing apathy signaling, far from it, as that's just another way to cope through retreating. I'm saying that, feelings and all, it should be able to withstand the waves or else it's currently weak. 

You can't withstand the waves and tell yourself that you are better than them, when really you stand to buckle when they push you too far. 

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last edit on 10/2/2019 9:42:23 PM
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This isnt a place of mentally well people TC. It is normal and healthy for people to not want an excess of criticism

My college career seeing other artists handling critiques and otherwise seeing elements of the business world being overtly critical begs to differ. 

If you see an opposing opinion and constitute it as abuse, then you are weak and have more work to do. 

not only that, but the criticism I am receiving is from a bunch of mentally unwell and autistic people. Its not exactly constructive criticism. its destructive. That's the problem

The approval too, however, is the same lot, and if mentally well people didn't get you you'd have ad hom excuses for them too. Also if you're going for mentally well people why do you go for Sam Hyde's fanbase of all places? 

Once you accept that it's your own weakness instead of blaming your entire setting for it, you'll be more liable to grow stronger. It's this denial that harbors a festering wound beneath the bandages. 

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last edit on 10/2/2019 9:45:57 PM
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You are my favorite tc and I will miss you the most. but please, let me go

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I understand your perspective I really do, its just not the right perspective for me- for my personality and my mental health and happiness 

last edit on 10/2/2019 10:11:47 PM
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I know you think you know best, and maybe for a lot of people you do, maybe you would have made a great therapist and helped a lot of people 

 

but for me, you just have to trust me, I know whats best for me

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you have to let me grow and learn and make mistakes on my own, its the only way I learn anyway because I've found that the advice that works for most people usually doesnt work for me

 

I'm a loner tc, and a very unique individual

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you have to let me grow and learn and make mistakes on my own

Believe me I know. 

So far the only thing I've seen that makes you change course is fear, so effectively I'm stuck watching you make the mistakes whether I throw in my input or not. 

If anything, I'm mostly making points in hopes that a later you visits them. 

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