Med, we do have something in common
we are both going after the men of our dreams, despite all odds and what anyone else says
although we are both doing it for different intentions, and want different things from the person who owns our hearts, i still have to respect what you are trying to accomplish
Shame she's liable to think you're chasing Chapo from you merely existing and being a woman.
stalking is really looked down on so its a bit controversial, irl stalking a lot more than just online stalking. but i wouldnt say stalking in itself is "evil". it might not be very sane, and it might be annoying but its not "evil"
She's extended it to irl, a division you've stated multiple times makes your case quite different where I'm inclined to agree.
Internet in it's current form is mostly harmless, real life gets creepy, both platforms at once meanwhile...
im not back to encouraging you to chase chapo, but I will say I at least partially understand and respect you following your heart
and I understand, by looking at your situation and how people respond to you, why some people also are attempting to discourage me from following my own heart
I'm glad your Med projections are only half-baked now, you're seeing differences now between how sad her approach is and how yours is merely just online.
Sure you're still grasping at her as a justification for your own actions from a perceived lack of support otherwise, but you're getting there.
but I would say the reality is that you and I following our hearts is ultimately harmless to the other person as long as violence isnt ever involved.
We have examples on this website alone that show that it doesn't take laying a finger on anyone to do some damages.
Again though her invasion of privacy extends into real life, she went to his work to confront him when he was on the clock, and she's liable to go Hollywood Axe Murderer if given enough time and pressure.
we are both adults and responsible for our actions and choices and while to some it might appear we are self sabotaging or insane, it.....doesnt really matter if we are aware of that but want to do it anyway
Is Med an adult tho? Would you dox someone because they won't change their avatar?
yolo (most likely) soooo might as well do what your heart pulls you to do. life is meaningless and ends in death where you forget you were ever born or existed in the first place lol, and everyone dies
p.s. "psychological harm" is bs if physical violence/physical force isnt involved imo
There's so many articles I can link about how psychological harm is worse than physical...
Using physical harm is typically to inflict psychological distress. When I enjoy pain, they don't get out of it what they intended even though they did physically hit me like they'd once desired.
It's all about psychology, for our world as we know it is the byproduct of our minds.
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