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If someone has to sort this kind of thing out into a point system... then their social radar must be absent. 

I can just imagine someone arguing with their prospective other over how "they ought to have enough points by now". 

bleary said:

Cool point system for determining if it’s OK to ask a stranger out

Your Asperger's is showing.

It’s not the point system really.

Maybe read what she says about public vs. semi-public places for pickups, and the corollary, not trapping someone in a public place where they can’t exit you gracefully 

bleary said: 

It’s not the point system really.

Maybe read what she says about public vs. semi-public places for pickups, and the corollary, not trapping someone in a public place where they can’t exit you gracefully 

 I read the entire thing. Dating situations for Asperger's 101

Although hopefully it stops some people who read it from asking out waitresses/ cashiers at work.

bleary said: 

It’s not the point system really.

Maybe read what she says about public vs. semi-public places for pickups, and the corollary, not trapping someone in a public place where they can’t exit you gracefully 

Why is this so much more difficult for you compared to other people? What's going on here?