You've begun lumping the peanut gallery in with the people actually attacking.
I just don't like the theorizing. It doesn't fit with reality.
A person who never bothers with hypotheticals is one who is insecure over their own imagination, and with no imagination or room to figure possibilities, much of what's real will be missed as well.
I'd say it's closer to not fitting with your reality, as we cannot know the objective one within our limitations. All we're saddled with is the data in our hands, and that applies to you too.The hyotheticals are black and white. Take, Lena'' dystopian fantasy where I control Delora's every move and abuse her. That is so extreme. Yeah we had some bad days and snippets of the details ended up on SC in public, but those snippets don't mean that most days are not good or normal
spite said u abuse her too