why dont you just say "Im Bi" all the time blanc does that not sound "cool" enough? does it make it more obvious how retarded and not unique you are? being gay isnt even unique. youre so boring lol
"The “double stigma” experienced by many bisexual people has been well documented in academic literature over the last few decades. Like gay and lesbian folks, bisexuals suffer stigmatization and discrimination from the heterosexual majority for not being straight, but they are additionally shunned by the gay/lesbian minority — for not being gay “enough.”" - them
There's also that their mates have to worry that they could be checking out both genders equally. It's twice the competition.
Being bi has it's own struggles, and for whatever reasons there's some lesbians hate really hard on them for having the option of sleeping with men as well, figuring it makes them essentially traitors who don't really understand the gay struggle. It's led to some bisexuals wanting to just fit into the lesbian label like how it used to be treated as in decades past.
There's even awkwardness about if bisexual people in hetero relationships ought to go to The Pride Parades out of a feeling of being glared at.