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She believes to be so but still has found herself sapiosexually attracted to some, as many would still call them, "males". I'd snag the label from Fetlife and call her Homoflexible.
Now, another question worth asking is am I gay?
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Icee what you mean now.
20:27 Blanc: maybe god is at the center of a mega galaxy in which all of our galaxies are entangled also I'm gay
20:27 Blanc: and there exists the mothership where aliens rule all the galaxies including us
20:27 Blanc: and maybe all the presidents are gay reptiles including the queen of england
20:28 Blanc: and maybe celebrities don't die they just get plastic surgery and change their identities
20:28 Blanc: i am gay and find it really furstrating when people share ideas they're havng and they get all the credit for them
20:28 Blanc: when i literally already came across that same line of thought when i was 10 i was gay
20:28 Blanc: and no one gave a shit then
20:28 Blanc: but im not bitter, just very gay
20:28 Blanc: and im tIRED OF LIVING with this conservative ass FAMILY
20:29 Blanc: but i'm trying to be "tHE BIGGER PERSON" and also gay
20:29 Blanc: and not have a "VICTIM/HELPLESS MENTALITLY"
20:29 Blanc: but ALKSDJF;ALSKDJFLK;ASJDFLASDFJALKSJF;LKSDFJA;KLi am a homosexualSDFJ;LASKDJFGKASDJKLDFJGA;DGALDFLASKDJFKim gay;SLRJGA;LJGKDF
20:29 Blanc: THEY'RE SO FUCKING TERRIBLE TO ME AND IM VERY GAY AND NOT EVEN ALLOWED TO CHANGE IT!!!!LAJD;SFLKJASLDKFJA;LSDF
20:29 Blanc: AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
20:29 Blanc: ok bye im gay btw
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i'm glad we've established the universe revolves around my sexuality
Only because you make such a big deal out of it.
They honestly have more to mock about me than you, this is about presentation.
Last December and earlier in 2019 blanc was bisexual. She still is, it's just she is angry at men.
There are no lesbians, just bisexual women who prefer women.
You've never met a true lesbian?
Does this also apply to men?
Last December and earlier in 2019 blanc was bisexual. She still is, it's just she is angry at men.
There are no lesbians, just bisexual women who prefer women.
You've never met a true lesbian?
Every lesbian I know has been with a guy before.
Does this also apply to men?
Sometimes.
im not angry at men nor do i hate them
i will vent about my experiences with them but i have never outright said "i hate men" so please dont put words in my mouth about large opinions such as these.
it's an assumption you made but
yeah also, i dont really expect people to understand but, there is no need to like "police" peoples sexuality or try to invalidate it because they've been with men in the past.
i know what i am, you can take it or leave it but, doesn't make a difference.
also what you're talking about is a gold star lesbian, a lesbian who's never been with men in the past. this term was developped in the 90's when shit like this mattered to people.
it's now generally uncool to like, seperate people based on the fact theyve been with a man or not in their life, or if theyre bi or just truly lesbian.
people try not to do this anymore is probably why you dont hear the term thrown around anymore, it's just kind of stupid af.
but my ex gf was and still is a gold star lesbian. they do exist. it's rare because most people aren't so lucky to have their sexuality all perfectly figured out at such a young age, like my ex did.
when everyone is telling you, "your sexuality is wrong."
"your sexuality is temporary and a phase"
"your real sexuality will develop soon."
"you're supposed to date men"
"you're supposed to marry men"
"you're supposed to want men"
and all you're surrounded by is, heterosexuality, and conservative religious types- and all your friends are straight and homophobic- and you go to a school where the only gay kid was bullied so bad they actually had to leave the school because they attempted to fucking kill themselves and was also known for self harming
and your parents will disown you if you are gay in every sense of the term and your future will go down the toilet because of it
you just... are kind of like.. yeahhhh i'm gonna try my best to be bi.
i tried to force it, but it just isn't true. i'm not capable of being straight.
i wanted to convince myself i could but i'm genuinely not straight, and thats my sexuality.
what you do when you're alone says the most about a person.
lets just put it this way, never- not once- have i ever, "gotten off" to the idea of being with a man.
bold to say but its true. it's not even *possible* for me to be straight. it's just not something i am capable of doing.
it doesn't just come down to sex either, there's a lot more to it.
i'm gay in every capacity.
i dont even want to touch men. much less sleep with them. it's not out of disdian or anything, it just doesn't register the same for me as it might the way it does for a straight woman.
i wanted to beliee i could condition and mold myself over time to become used to it. but that failed.