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to be honest,  I would rather be dommed and then become the dommer over time and Turncoat seems like a sub  I would probably more likely try to turn Tunrocat straigjt and influence them to become more dominant sexually  soo prob not actually compatible  ;p;p

just joking

just joking

She said: 

1.  I am good at pegging and domming

3.  turncoat looks like he wants and needs some good spankings

All I have to hear~ 

When and where? 😏

She said: 

to be honest,  I would rather be dommed and then become the dommer over time and Turncoat seems like a sub

I am very much a sub yes, I am here to help people not lead people. 

I would probably more likely try to turn Tunrocat straigjt and influence them to become more dominant sexually  soo prob not actually compatible  ;p;p

Okay, lets actually talk about that. It's something I've spent a lot of time thinking about, because 'men' are 'supposed to be in charge' and all that shit. 

When I am in a dominant position, even temporarily, I become overstimulated by the steps. I worry that I made the wrong choice over a ton of choices in quick succesion, and that's a very intimidating thing to focus on. If I am somehow doing wrong by my partner, the possibility of that is very distracting, while if my partner is using me I know any fault of the situation isn't my own, but theirs over how I was wielded. I can relax when they are riding me, but if I am riding them it's a series of questions over the quality THEY are feeling, if I am doing enough, if I could be doing more, it's very distracting compared to just being ridden. 

How do you plan to fix my preoccupation with that? I'd need someone who's at least half the masochist I am to know I can make mistakes. I've had a lot of daydreams about finding another masochist so we can just... let loose on eachother as flesh not people, but most people have an aversion to pain. 

Turncoat said: 

She said: 

to be honest,  I would rather be dommed and then become the dommer over time and Turncoat seems like a sub

I am very much a sub yes, I am here to help people not lead people. 

I would probably more likely try to turn Tunrocat straigjt and influence them to become more dominant sexually  soo prob not actually compatible  ;p;p

Okay, lets actually talk about that. It's something I've spent a lot of time thinking about, because 'men' are 'supposed to be in charge' and all that shit. 

When I am in a dominant position, even temporarily, I become overstimulated by the steps. I worry that I made the wrong choice over a ton of choices in quick succesion, and that's a very intimidating thing to focus on. If I am somehow doing wrong by my partner, the possibility of that is very distracting, while if my partner is using me I know any fault of the situation isn't my own, but theirs over how I was wielded. I can relax when they are riding me, but if I am riding them it's a series of questions over the quality THEY are feeling, if I am doing enough, if I could be doing more, it's very distracting compared to just being ridden. 

How do you plan to fix my preoccupation with that? I'd need someone who's at least half the masochist I am to know I can make mistakes. I've had a lot of daydreams about finding another masochist so we can just... let loose on eachother as flesh not people, but most people have an aversion to pain. 

what if your partner was very vocal and gave consistant feedback and said what they found pleasurable and not pleasurable and why and such  ??  for myself personally because of being soo overweight  (presently at least) riding for very long I do not know if I would be fit enough,  but even when I was thin I preferred to be the one recieving and not doing much other than giving head  (but I have only been with straight and bisexual men)

Turncoat said:

I'd need someone who's at least half the masochist I am to know I can make mistakes.

 what do you mean by that,  can you elaborate on this ?

just joking

just joking