Talking about your money brings nothing but trouble. It's a bit too late, but stop doing that. Some people get jacked or killed over it. Some people as you know get scammed.
Whenever you get your cool million, keep it a secret. It's only 20x more than what you already lost and if you already had it from time, you'd probably have lost more.
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Scammers in my opinion deserve to be in a world where everyone is a piece of shit like they are. That isn't a world with infrastructures that cater to the well being of themselves and others but it's one where everyone is out to get one another.
In your case the scammer is highlighting something about yourself that needs to be fixed. That thing about you that needs to be fixed has a defense mechanism. When brought up you will get defensive and run away, then go and make the same mistake that is in all honesty leading you to a loveless broke ass lonely hell.
That thing about you demands reality to be what you want it to be, and follows suit as though it were what you hope it to be. You legit came back into the chat log and said how Chapo is asking for more money, but did not want to face the question in regards to "which Chapo is it" cause a part of you knows it's the scammer, but you so don't want it to be so you're at the scammers merci.
At this point it doesn't matter if it's Chapo or not. Don't give him or who you hope is him shit.
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If people don't like you, there's always a reason for that. Sometimes they just don't, and sometimes they don't like how you've gotten along. These people can be your own family.
Next time Nathan or some random dude makes a pass at you. Just say thanks, take the credit. And keep up the conversation. Check them out, set your boundaries and don't run away. That kind of behavior prevents you from loving and being loved and you will be alone. Though he made it further than most you did something similar with Chapo long ago before you realized you loved the bloke.
Sure you don't like the others like that, and sure you don't want them, but you want something from them which is a bit of their time and energy for nothing. Just say you're friends and nothing more if you want that bridge blocked, and for someone like Nate who speaks with an erection will still think you're worthwhile, cause the least you can do for those who express appreciation for you, is to heal.
