Betrayal?
Disrespect in general. Betrayal would be a part of that.
How aggressive a disrespect response?
You strike me as one who might storm out diva-style.
Depends on the situation.
I'll do what's best for myself and everyone, sometimes that includes detaching myself from people, places and things. I've done it even with Family. AND... a big and... There's nothing wrong with that.
It's stoicism.
Disrespect in general. Betrayal would be a part of that.
How aggressive a disrespect response?
You strike me as one who might storm out diva-style.Depends on the situation.
I'll do what's best for myself and everyone, sometimes that includes detaching myself from people, places and things. I've done it even with Family. AND... a big and... There's nothing wrong with that.
It's stoicism.
Stoicism to some is burying for another, it's a thin line.
How aggressive a disrespect response?
You strike me as one who might storm out diva-style.Depends on the situation.
I'll do what's best for myself and everyone, sometimes that includes detaching myself from people, places and things. I've done it even with Family. AND... a big and... There's nothing wrong with that.
It's stoicism.
Stoicism to some is burying for another, it's a thin line.
They are deluded.
Depends on the situation.
I'll do what's best for myself and everyone, sometimes that includes detaching myself from people, places and things. I've done it even with Family. AND... a big and... There's nothing wrong with that.
It's stoicism.
Stoicism to some is burying for another, it's a thin line.
They are deluded.
How are you able to tell the difference when it comes to yourself, where's that line for you?
Have you not seen the classic "I am bored" to mean they're angry? Edvard would have bragged to be a Stoic.
You're deluding again. That thin line is your own creation while it simply doesn't exist as you believe stoicism means other things to other people.
No such thing as personal truth. Just truth.
Have you not seen the classic "I am bored" to mean they're angry? Edvard would have bragged to be a Stoic.
Ed was the opposite of stoic. He was very hot headed and emotional, and an emotional man is a violent one.
Alice from what I gather is shy and therefore very mysterious and I actually don't know much about her. I did go looking for her and I think I found her though, she seems nice of that person is her.
She's a decent person.
I used to appreciate Luna for whatever she had to offer. It was nice what she did. I don't see her as the type of be happy for anyone other than herself though. You give her way too much credit.
Really? I think you have the wrong read on her. There have been many times where she could've taken a shot but she acted with kindness instead.
I used to feel disgusted when Jim would boast about his investments doing well, but really he would buy things that already pumped then get wrecked. He never made a good call. Meanwhile he had single Mother on this very forum he did not support.
You felt disgusted not because of jealousy though. But you get the point.
I was never moved by Jim's success. In fact, my opinion of Jim is reasonably high.
Looks like Epsilon wants everyone to band together and spread gossip about you, or the say the least have other agree with her gossip, but if that's your buddy and this is what you do for fun, then all the power to you. That doesn't look like good sportsmanship to me though.
For me, it's three strikes and they're out. You think Epsilon is med, but he's not. He's not a bad person. Do you notice his silence?
Well, ultimately time will tell.
As long as things function, all is right in your environment. Things are fine with your people on the most part, you're doing well.
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I don't see jealousy as a bad thing. It's how we handle it that matters, I've certainly felt it before.
Really? I guess we are different then. When was that?
One of my siblings is perpetually jealous of me. The worst was when I got my 1st and 2nd Ninja. When I lose the first one, he started cooling off but 10 months later I got another one and he lost it again. He's not Jealous of the others, just me and how he handled was poor. It did a lot of damage in the family. When I do well his eyes turn red, and his cheeks puff when he curses at me, like he isn't even trying to hide it. All of his extended family hate me for some reason. His Father in law, his Mother in law, his ex's family, his wife, his newer friends I never knew growing up. They all treat me like I'm to be avoided at all cost, or they are just rude.
We met another sibling late in life, and that sibling was taught to fear me. Now I'm the only one she talks to and she saw first hand the ways of the wicked one. The youngest sibling, he kinda stays out of it, but he does stick up for me in the heat of the moment.
One time we were parting ways at one of the last family gatherings at my Late Father's house. His wife hugged his friend, hugged the other siblings, then she warmed up and gave me a hug, and he totally cracked and made things really awkward.
It's quite petty, isn't it? When it's in broad daylight, it makes your guts wrench at the injustice of it. You suffer just because a person never learned to control themselves. I see it as a sign of immaturity.
So When it comes to jealousy, I wouldn't let it do me that, but rather I'll squash it really quick if it ever surfaces because I see how ugly someone can get when they submit to it. I think that mindset alone keeps it at bay cause I probably never felt it... Well since my teens.
I'm also not interested in making people jealous either. It's childish and very obvious when people do that. With that if someone close to me pulled that, I wouldn't be impressed for the fact they would even try to do that, but I also consider the woman's nature is to shit test from time to time. And yes we have to have some type of reaction or else she'll see you as a pushover and her vagina will dry up. That's life -_-
I agree that sometimes you need to pretend to be angry for the sake of punishing poor behavior.
Alice from what I gather is shy and therefore very mysterious and I actually don't know much about her. I did go looking for her and I think I found her though, she seems nice of that person is her.
She's a decent person.
Yes, we're in touch, though we don't talk much.
I used to appreciate Luna for whatever she had to offer. It was nice what she did. I don't see her as the type of be happy for anyone other than herself though. You give her way too much credit.
Really? I think you have the wrong read on her. There have been many times where she could've taken a shot but she acted with kindness instead.
Many ? No.
I personally don't care if someone is racist, but if they're amazingly racist with a deep hatred, I'll think little of that person.
I used to feel disgusted when Jim would boast about his investments doing well, but really he would buy things that already pumped then get wrecked. He never made a good call. Meanwhile he had single Mother on this very forum he did not support.
You felt disgusted not because of jealousy though. But you get the point.
I was never moved by Jim's success. In fact, my opinion of Jim is reasonably high.
Jim wasn't successful in trading. He'd always buy after something pumps, then while he's boasting about going long on a leverage trade, the asset takes a nosedive, which will eat his entire capital investment. A good trader brags about selling. I brought it up cause Jim is the type that would like to instill jealousy in others with glee.
Looks like Epsilon wants everyone to band together and spread gossip about you, or the say the least have other agree with her gossip, but if that's your buddy and this is what you do for fun, then all the power to you. That doesn't look like good sportsmanship to me though.
For me, it's three strikes and they're out. You think Epsilon is med, but he's not. He's not a bad person. Do you notice his silence?
Well, ultimately time will tell.
I don't think that's Med. Buyerbeware is who I think Med is these days.
As long as things function, all is right in your environment. Things are fine with your people on the most part, you're doing well.
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I don't see jealousy as a bad thing. It's how we handle it that matters, I've certainly felt it before.
Really? I guess we are different then. When was that?
I mentioned it being in my teens, so it was probably 30+ years ago.
There was an older girl I had a crush on for a few years, she was my first kiss it was like a dream come true. She ended up banging my friend and they hung out at the park by my house. Even at a young age I wasn't upset with my friend. She banged him again. I just stayed cool and let them hang. Then my friend was left confused when she instantly ditched him. Instinctively I knew she was using my boy to upset me and she did a pretty good job, but I did a pretty good job handling my emotions as well.
Nothing wrong with being jealous, it's how we handle it that matters. If someone is made into an ass, that's their poor choice, and she never made an ass out of me.
If you're unable to experience jealousy under extreme circumstances when it's called for, then your brain is probably broken and you lack sense.
One of my siblings is perpetually jealous of me. The worst was when I got my 1st and 2nd Ninja. When I lose the first one, he started cooling off but 10 months later I got another one and he lost it again. He's not Jealous of the others, just me and how he handled was poor. It did a lot of damage in the family. When I do well his eyes turn red, and his cheeks puff when he curses at me, like he isn't even trying to hide it. All of his extended family hate me for some reason. His Father in law, his Mother in law, his ex's family, his wife, his newer friends I never knew growing up. They all treat me like I'm to be avoided at all cost, or they are just rude.
We met another sibling late in life, and that sibling was taught to fear me. Now I'm the only one she talks to and she saw first hand the ways of the wicked one. The youngest sibling, he kinda stays out of it, but he does stick up for me in the heat of the moment.
One time we were parting ways at one of the last family gatherings at my Late Father's house. His wife hugged his friend, hugged the other siblings, then she warmed up and gave me a hug, and he totally cracked and made things really awkward.
It's quite petty, isn't it? When it's in broad daylight, it makes your guts wrench at the injustice of it. You suffer just because a person never learned to control themselves. I see it as a sign of immaturity.
Right, and we really don't become the things we find off putting.
So When it comes to jealousy, I wouldn't let it do me that, but rather I'll squash it really quick if it ever surfaces because I see how ugly someone can get when they submit to it. I think that mindset alone keeps it at bay cause I probably never felt it... Well since my teens.
I'm also not interested in making people jealous either. It's childish and very obvious when people do that. With that if someone close to me pulled that, I wouldn't be impressed for the fact they would even try to do that, but I also consider the woman's nature is to shit test from time to time. And yes we have to have some type of reaction or else she'll see you as a pushover and her vagina will dry up. That's life -_-
I agree that sometimes you need to pretend to be angry for the sake of punishing poor behavior.
I'll have a genuine reaction, but not for the reason some people will think.
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Tell me.
How would you react/feel if you walked in on your naked wife bouncing on some guys rod ?
They are deluded.
How are you able to tell the difference when it comes to yourself, where's that line for you?
You're deluding again. That thin line is your own creation while it simply doesn't exist as you believe stoicism means other things to other people.
No such thing as personal truth. Just truth.
There's really no talking semantics with you, is there?
Have you not seen the classic "I am bored" to mean they're angry? Edvard would have bragged to be a Stoic.
Ed was the opposite of stoic. He was very hot headed and emotional, and an emotional man is a violent one.
Doesn't stop him, like many others, from claiming it as a self-report like you are doing.
