Twin Flames.
Not to be confused with soul mate, Twin flame relationships are extremely taxing for both parties. When one pulls and other pushes. They do think of one another in very few shades, and it's either very high or very low, even Chapo thinks of Med and will think of Med when she's nowhere to be seen, he's also prone to missing Med, which is part of the twin flame condition. There is a purpose to that relationship. It's to evolve into the better version of themselves through hard lessons through detachment. Yes detachment, even though they intuitively know they love one another, there's a great deal of importance for them to gain through detachment on a spiritual level. So what must Med do ? We all know the answer to that, and the more she carries on with the chase, the worse it gets for her, then it's easy to see when she chooses the right path and gives up, things will start to turn around for her in so many ways, and the further she drifts away from Chapo, he'll begin to feel a sense of loss. It is afterall convenient or rewarding for him to have Med, it's very validating to have someone obsessed over oneself so, even though he treats her like dirt it's pretty darn good.
Chapo proposed to Med awhile back, which caused her to push him away. Being a twin flame, That in effect would've been a mental disaster for Chapo and he did suffer greatly from that event. The suffering is in effect self destructive because the twin flame shares the same soul. Yes, they are 2 instances of the same soul propped up on this stage for the sake of evolution. Being Chapo and Med, the soul will gain greatly from the experience it learns here, even though living through it will seem to come at a high price. If both parties are a success here on Earth, that would be a fine addition for their soul.
Eventually Chapo found the strength to move on, get married bang other chicks. As it is with twin flames, when one starts to think less of the other, then the one being forgotten will develop strong feelings, in this case Med who is obsessed beyond belief with Chapo, became so when it was too late. Chapo probably caught wind of how the dynamics of his relations with Med works so he'll remain cold. Most likely cold in an unforgiving manner, which again is that detachment causing the other to chase.
Who does Med love ? It is Chapo of course, and it's unconditional love. Chapo can slaughter a daycare and Med will still be there for him. But she must detach. She knows it, you reader know it, he knows it, everyone knows it. Ironically detaching from Chapo is her ONLY best bet to ever get him back, and if she detaches for that reason, it may not be good enough.
Chapo wants to build a family. It's been on his todo list, while the fastest and easiest course for him to do so is through Med. That is no coincidence. He can cum in here everyday for decades and she'd be delighted, so in a sense Chapo being detached from Med also pierces himself in that regard. Life is limited and when it's too late, Chapo will eventually find some regret with his inability to forgive. ( I think that's what he has to do ). He certainly won't forgive Med if she's at his foot grovelling for attention, it takes away the pain. It's even fantasy like, someone who rejected your proposal and caused you intense suffering does a complete 180. Yeah that's very healing and the harder she goes, the harder he'll remain.
For the soul behind our twin flame subjects.....
- For Chapo to hang onto detachment, and Med stuck chasing, it will not be of great value to the soul, which is them both who are actually the one soul.
- If Med can detach they both find a balance in detachment, that's pretty good. The soul can acquire resilience which is a valuable asset in an eternal state. ( To live forever will mean endless adventures )
- If they find themselves together, they'll make each other very, very, very, veeeery, happy to the point not only will both parties get exactly what they want, but the universe will open up to them in such a way, they'll find good friends and connections cause their energy is so good.
Does Chapo hate Med ? As long as she chases it will seem so, he'll be repelled and might even believe he does, but Not really. Disappointed at one point for sure, and he'll most likely deny any fondness for her when asked. He's most likely disgusted with her at the moment while she carries on with her disgusting behavior ( Even an outsider can see that she must detach to draw him in )
Why did Chapo not Chase Med when she detached from him ? (she probably wanted him to chase ). Simply, He was bewildered. Chapo is the stronger twin mentally I imagine.
There isn't anything in SC keeping them here except one another. Without Med, Chapo's SC experience will certainly be a lesser one.
There's a saying, if you love someone let them go. That's the case with Twin Flames. Don't have to take my word for it, but if you read or watch videos about this, each and every last one of them will tell you the exact same thing. What to do when rejected, how to attract a twin flame. Regardless of one's belief Chapo and Med will be all too familiar with this subject.
