so this girl on an online app messaged me first which caught me by surprise because women normally don't message men first
now, i had no photos uploaded to my profile. i had made it and left it blank
her first line of private message was asking me if i wanted to meet
because i have nothing to live for, i agreed to meet her
we agreed on the date to meet through text over the next days
not a single time did she ask me a personal question. she didnt ask to call me, see a photo of me or anything of that sorts. heck she didnt even ask for my name
i dismissed that as her having no social skills/being shy etc.
i asked her whatever i wanted and she replied to everything, she even sent me a pic of herself upon request, almost like a people pleaser
fast forward to the date we meet
we agreed to meet at a coffee shop at a certain street (she suggested this place)
upon entering the coffee shop, she pulled out her phone and started texting somebody
i had assumed she texted a friend saying she was safe, wasn't kidnapped etc.
but she was texting for far too long to be that
i waited for her like 5 minutes before we finally went to order our coffee
at the counter, each of us paid for our own coffee
the employee there asked us for our names to bring our coffee to us later. she used her online nickname, i then did the same
we finally got our coffee and she insisted we go for a walk (i thought we'd sit there at a table)
anyway, we're walking
the girl was in her 20s (much younger than me and she knew this before we met). i thought it was weird that she wanted to date me in the first place with such an age gap but didnt mention this to her
her voice was always very quiet when she spoke. she was almost whispering. i had to move my head uncomfortably close to her to hear what she was saying whenever she spoke
i managed to get her talking a bit
she told me about how she had a terrible relation with her family, how she hated her parents and grandparents
at one point, she told me her father had accidentally given her more money than he had intended and asked for some of it back, which she refused to give
another thing i found weird, i covertly trauma dumped and she didn't even say "im sorry that happened" or anything. she showed NO empathy
fast forward a few hours later when date ends
we exchanged feedback. she said we didn't click, i said the same (i was creeped out the entire time but hid it well)
i asked her what she didn't like about me twice but she didn't tell me
all she replied was "i can't describe it"
we parted ways and that's where it ended
oh and, the girl didn't wear makeup at all even though her face had obvious not-so-nice spots that could've been hidden by makeup
her clothes looked otherwise clean
at one point, she also mentioned how she had met multiple guys online but they didn't get along for one reason or another
this person was an entire ship of red flags
what do you think?
i promise this is not fantasy. it really happened
anyway i need to take better care of myself mates
i shouldnt need to say this but because ive been on sc for over 10 years and had many dates in the past, im an elite machiavellian who's really good with words / talking to wamen
another noteworthy thing is, im a gym bro and kinda tall in real life. this might've put her off to try anything funny
