People in my life dont talk to me because my mother is eleven years apart from her sister. It makes a world of difference. Much like you I share too much online but in a different way. You know nothing about my life.
I really prefer Andrew’s affable way.
I could be similarly cordial with people. This means you are polite and friendly but don’t disabuse your show of interest for someone when you are not. It’s how most people are. In the world of life and work. You will learn or you may never.