I think that one of the main differences as a heyoka empath is that I and other heyoka empaths heal using humor- Xavier doesn't really make people laugh in healing ways he just goes around traumatizing everyone
I do not engage in physical violence but I can engage in verbal violence at times if I am especially triggered which is like not very difficult to do admittedly still since I have a lot of unhealed (or more like in the process of being healed) c ptsd stuff going on- although I always follow it with grace (not enabling and allowing myself to be walked all over and my boundaries to be violated though or at least I am trying not to do this anymore) and wishing the person well and hoping for their wellbeing- whether or not I tell them this I am still doing it energetically which is what really matters