sociopathcommunity,  I am posting humbly as a woman who has been through much suffering and is desiring to maintain happiness and freedom and peacefulness and joyfulness that she has recently over the past few months found within herself,  and to protect herself from anything and anyone that might and especially that already has tried to prevent her from maintaining a lifestyle that contributes to her safety and enjoyment and wellbeing seeking aquaintenceship/ social interaction advice

 

soo this is the situation that I am seeking advice regarding-

 

 

 
00:24 She: I filed for a 50b resttaining order to assist in protecting me from strangling dude
00:24 She: and the hearing has been continued on into the middle of next month

00:25 She: this is the first time that I have ever filed for one

00:25 She: and he has recordings of me- lots of them accroding to him both video and audio
00:27 She: he is trying to pretend like he is Johnny depp and I am Amber heard

00:28 She: was* except he never called the police when he threatened me for being "loud and banging on his door and yelling stuff" allegedly

00:28 She: soo Idk if he actually has recordings or not ??

00:29 She: anyway- Umm yeah

00:30 She: so that's my life rn and I am not
living at my apartment anymore I am in a hiding place

00:30 She: hope yall are doing wonderfully

00:30 She: ttyl 🤍🕊
 
 
00:43 She: and he is a self proclaimed narcissist of course just my luck right

00:44 She: oh wait he said "a very very depressed narcissist" poor him such a victim right
 
18:00 She: I would really like the restraining order in addition for protection so that I can legally have my 1 year lease broken and move somewhere else because he lives and I live(d) 10 minutes walking distance away from where he works
 

18:41 She: the problem with our "aquaintenceship" was that he wanted me to behave like a proper lady under threats of death instesd of myself running all around the house yelling about poop and Shrek
 
18:42 She: you just do not death threat someone that.... likes to yell about poop and Shrek ??

18:42 She: Idk how that is ever supposed to go well for anyone lmao....

18:48 She: I mean he legit did strangle me without permission and I have never consented to choking and/ or strangulation in relationships

18:48 She: instead of relationships I meant s**ual interactions

18:51 She: and myself in this person never had s**ual intercourse but he has touched my private area and he was tpuching my private area when he strangled me and he was erect so although it seems like it is a kink of his ot has never been a kink of mine

18:52 She: I will honestly say that I do like a hand on my neck but never enough to cut off air and myself and that other person had not ever discussed it and

18:53 She: I definitely never gave permission and there was no safe word set up or anything like it was not consented to at all on my part
18:55 She: soo that bring saif what bothered me modt about what happened wad not the act itself- but how disrrspectful it was and also that he was trying to intimidate me to influence me to behave how he wanted

18:56 She: Instead of GIVING. honestly I am at the point of like if you want me to behave like anything other than someone that likes to spend her time yelling about poop and Shrek then GIVE ME STUFF THAT YOU KNOW THAT I WOULD LIKE- gifts, compliments

18:57 She: shopping trips, cuddling and snuggling, massages

18:57 She: GIVE ME STUFF DAMNIT. GIVE INSTEAD OF TAKING ALL OF THE TIME

18:59 She: soo yeah I am going through another "mental breakdown/ bout of insanity" where like I am requuring all of my needs to be contributed to if people desire for mw to behave any differently than my preffered default of talking about poop and Shrek

18:59 She: and maybe some insulting comments here and there :p

19:00 She: maybe just a few.... :p

19:00 She: just a light sprinkling ;p

19:00 She: a.... shit talking shower if you will

19:00 She: kk anyway soo yeah

19:01 She: and I initially rejected thus guy by thw way- he kept coming onto me the first time we hung out just as friends and I tuned down his advances

19:03 She: but a couple of weeks later he offered to help fix my light and I felt like making out and I told him that we could make out and I would have even let him fuck me but he wouldn't because he was trying to be a tease because seemingly he felt led on that

19:03 She: I haf turned down his advances a couple weeks ago 🙄

19:05 She: and he was touching my breasts and my private area and stuff and then an hour later after he left my room he came back without knocking or permission but the door was unlocked and he came over to my yoga mat where I was at the time watching stuff on my

19:06 She: phone and I was half asleep and he came over and started touching my private area and I thought that he was going to have s** with me but instead he started strangling me

19:07 She: soo yeah this is the facts

19:07 She: of what happened that night