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nvcpractitioner said: 

when people behaved in ways that I inaccurately interpreted  (because it is an evaluation not an observation)  as contemptuously and condescendingly towards myself-  It was not *ME* that was the problem,  it was their own inner wounds/unmet needs that were the problem

so it is inaccurate for myself to take on any blame for THEIR OWN unmet needs that influenced them to behave in those ways that I used to interpret as attacks/  be offended by

I choose to believe that this is accurate,  and I do not care if anyone else agrees with me or not  (although I know that there are a lot of people also practicing nonviolent thinking and believing out there !)

I am taking a final stand that this is what I am going to choose to believe. I do not *HAVE TO* believe what other people choose to believe about myself,  or about themselves,  or about anything else. I have the autonomy and permission from myself and permission from God to choose my own beliefs

 

 

 Maybe reevaluate until you decide it was your fault completely?

nvcpractitioner said: 

when people behaved in ways that I inaccurately interpreted  (because it is an evaluation not an observation)  as contemptuously and condescendingly towards myself-  It was not *ME* that was the problem,  it was their own inner wounds/unmet needs that were the problem

so it is inaccurate for myself to take on any blame for THEIR OWN unmet needs that influenced them to behave in those ways that I used to interpret as attacks/  be offended by

I feel as if you are attempting to cast off blame through projecting your own inner demons onto the people around you. 

Turncoat said: 

nvcpractitioner said: 

when people behaved in ways that I inaccurately interpreted  (because it is an evaluation not an observation)  as contemptuously and condescendingly towards myself-  It was not *ME* that was the problem,  it was their own inner wounds/unmet needs that were the problem

so it is inaccurate for myself to take on any blame for THEIR OWN unmet needs that influenced them to behave in those ways that I used to interpret as attacks/  be offended by

I feel as if you are attempting to cast off blame through projecting your own inner demons onto the people around you. 

 

 We are all demons.