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It's not a requirement but it does complete the natural cycle and is the general rule 99.9 percent of the time 

PastelPink said: 

A relationship is an addition to a fulfilling life, not a requirement for it.

 

05:20 PastelPink: Alice is so beautiful, so kind, and so good to me. I am the luckiest woman in the world ♡

 05:41 shamanqueen: codependency is for stupid people

 05:42 Delora: i wish i was financially stable with my house built enough for a child

 05:42 shamanqueen: when you can stand on your own and be Independent and self-reliant you are far superior and strong

05:42 shamanqueen: ahamen don't really do weakness

05:42 Delora: i want to be pregnant

05:42 shamanqueen: shamen*

05:42 shamanqueen: we are too gifted and powerful for that

05:42 Delora: but it just isnt the time

05:43 shamanqueen: cannot relate to that type of mentality palepeach

05:43 Delora: i had a dream i was pregnant and our house was built and i was wearing the most beautiful dress making soup for my husband

05:43 Delora: i love my husband though and i should be greatful. he is a wonderful man and will be a wonderful father now that my infertility is solved

05:44 Delora: i spent a lot of my savings on getting treatment my insurance would not cover

05:44 Delora: my husband held my hand through the entire journey

05:45 Delora: i hope we have a beautiful, jewish baby

05:45 Delora: who will continue my people with pride

05:46 shamanqueen: I would rather die than not feel free for even one second of the day

05:46 Delora: i must work to get into this school even though they dont want autistic students i must fight to the end to carve a future for myself where we can have our child

05:46 Delora: shamanqueen you dont have to start a family, but this agenda that being a wife or a mother is "degrading" is a sexist lie spread by feminism

05:47 shamanqueen: I do not want to be in a relationship just sick of people accusing me of false stuff even shamanking was doing it but subconsciously

05:47 Delora: no one is accusing you of anything atm

05:47 shamanqueen: &so I said No I am not that and No I do not do that

05:48 Delora: i am so confused

05:49 Delora: i dont know why you are upset no one is accusing you of anything false atm in the chat

05:49 Delora: or really anything at all

05:49 shamanqueen: I LOVE BEING ALONE when will people finally realise that and I always have I just used to feel like I "should" try to fit societal expa rtations and stuff now I simply don't give a fuck and I never will again

05:49 shamanqueen: expectations*

05:49 Delora: what are you talking about? i never said you shouldnt be

05:49 shamanqueen: anywaaay

05:51 Delora: ????????

05:51 Delora: anyway what?

05:53 shamanqueen: Idk I just really have

05:53 shamanqueen: been wanting to stay self-partnered for life lately

05:54 shamanqueen: I have never felt soo empowered

05:54 shamanqueen: Like, all I need is myself I can meet all of my own needs

05:54 shamanqueen: what do I need someone else around all of the time for

06:00 Delora: you are a woman

06:00 Delora: you are meant to be with a man

06:00 Delora: find a man who is lonely and struggles with mental health as you do, but one contained in Permanant assisted housing. visit him every day, and find love

06:01 Delora: you are meant to be complete by a man.

06:01 Delora: i dont care what anyone says

06:01 Delora: a man completes a woman and a WOMAN COMPLETES A MAN.

06:01 Delora: it has been such since the beginning of time.

06:02 Delora: even the leaders of the temples of israel each had one wife.

06:03 Delora: and the head would speak one on one with God

06:04 Delora: and he would go to his wife for support because he was not complete without her because women are beautiful

06:04 Delora: there are many, many men out there who are lonely with mental illness that are safe for you. they live in assisted housing many of them do.

06:05 Delora: there are staff if anyone gets hurt or threatened

06:05 Delora: and its the best case scenario for someone like you to find a wonderful man for you.

06:07 Delora: i believe before that though, you should go to the doctor, tell him of your struggles with dreams, and try some medicine,

06:07 Delora: find whats right for you, and get some good therapy and be happy.

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13:50 Delora: I AGREE WITH PINK

 Everyone should be able to be happy and content with themselves before bringing another person into their life.  

  Shamenqueen, your feelings od wanting to be alone are valid. So are mine. If you are happy on your own that is a good thing. If a person adds additional value and meaning to your life and you want them to be there that isn't a weakness. If another person wouldn't add value, there is no reason to seek a partner.

I disagree with Delora saying a partner is required to make someone complete. That type of mentality is very harmful, and can create very toxic codependant relationships. 

 

Delora i hope one day you are cured of the misogynistic brainwashing that a woman needs a man to be happy.

 It's not misogyny because I also said a man needs a woman to be happier so it applies to all sexes. 

And by that I mean in general.

They don't need it to be happy but a good partner does make people happier, and usually that partner is the opposite sex because statistics show gay people are a very low percentage of the human population.

It's called a general truth. It's like if I said "male lions have manes" yes we all know not every male lion has a mane, but most male lions do and that statement is still true. Or "the the sky is blue" yes the sky can be many colors even green but the sky is usually blue. Or "black people are brown" yes we know some black people might have albinism and appear Caucasian but it is a general truth black people are brown. 

It is scientifically proven btw that a good partner makes both people and many animals alike happier and even live long lives and be sick less as well.

Okay so... why couldn't it work with other gendered pairings? 

Seems like Breeder logic. 

Turncoat said: 

Okay so... why couldn't it work with other gendered pairings? 

Seems like Breeder logic. 

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Delora just said:

and usually that partner is the opposite sex because statistics show gay people are a very low percentage of the human population.

It's called a general truth. It's like if I said "male lions have manes" yes we all know not every male lion has a mane, but most male lions do and that statement is still true. Or "the the sky is blue" yes the sky can be many colors even green but the sky is usually blue. Or "black people are brown" yes we know some black people might have albinism and appear Caucasian but it is a general truth black people are brown.

PastelPink said: 

Everyone should be able to be happy and content with themselves before bringing another person into their life. 

Ideally yes, otherwise they end up bringing the baggage with them to the next person. 

People who think they need another person to solve their problems for them tend to remain stuck in them, similar to Turquie's struggle with codependence desires as she's expressed them in the past (rather than as shown in the OP)

Delora i hope one day you are cured of the misogynistic brainwashing that a woman needs a man to be happy.

It's more about hetero junk with singular relationship undertones, she says a man needs a woman too. 

It's a Genetic Fallacy, and the presumption that a loose person with many partners might not be excelling. It plays into religious tropes more than misogynistic ones, this time. 

I disagree with Delora saying a partner is required to make someone complete. That type of mentality is very harmful, and can create very toxic codependant relationships. 

Could you elaborate on that? 

Turncoat said: 

PastelPink said: 

Everyone should be able to be happy and content with themselves before bringing another person into their life. 

Ideally yes, otherwise they end up bringing the baggage with them to the next person. 

People who think they need another person to solve their problems for them tend to remain stuck in them, similar to Turquie's struggle with codependence desires as she's expressed them in the past (rather than as shown in the OP)

Agreed. Although i do think the desire for new and healthy relationships can be great motivation for working on yourself. That's why I told her to work on herself before getting into a relationship at the end of my rambling there.

Delora i hope one day you are cured of the misogynistic brainwashing that a woman needs a man to be happy.

It's more about hetero junk, she says men need women too. 

Ty. Why does everything need to be misogynistic?

 

I disagree with Delora saying a partner is required to make someone complete. That type of mentality is very harmful, and can create very toxic codependant relationships. 

Could you elaborate on that? 

Delora said: 

Delora i hope one day you are cured of the misogynistic brainwashing that a woman needs a man to be happy.

It's more about hetero junk, she says men need women too. 

Ty. Why does everything need to be misogynistic?

It's still intolerant, just against orientation and promiscuity rather than gender solely. 

I fondly believe that soul mates are a requirement from God. God made a soul mate for all of us and we have to find him or her and procreate.

There's nothing toxic about it except that if we don't find our soul maters we are  total losers and deserve to feel unfulfilled, oh and if we find someone but he doesn't press the magic soul mate button, which we just know is being pressed when we find The One, then we should abandon that garbage bag in the name of God and search for that magical one who is promised to us.

EmilyJenkins said: 

I fondly believe that soul mates are a requirement from God. God made a soul mate for all of us and we have to find him or her and procreate.

There's nothing toxic about it except that if we don't find our soul maters we are  total losers and deserve to feel unfulfilled, oh and if we find someone but he doesn't press the magic soul mate button, which we just know is being pressed when we find The One, then we should abandon that garbage bag in the name of God and search for that magical one who is promised to us.

What?