it is about being healed enough that their karmic stuff doesn't affect you anymore splitting people and groups of people into black and white and trying to force the "black people and black groups" to change their ways is not effective because what if they do not know how ? it is better to be a walking example of how to do that and let people respond to peaceful energy the way that they feel led to I had it wrong in the past and I see that now, to heal yourself automatically causes you to have a healing energy because you are not splitting yourself anymore either
I do not want to force and control people to change I just want them to be okay, be less distressed if that is what they are seeking because feeling free feels better than feeling controlled and forced and I think that people can intuitively sense that and that is enough to be an inspiration that possibly leads to freedom and feeling better for other people, not leading them to feel controlled and forced especially when traumatic stuff lead them to feeling controlled and forced in the past- the controlling forcing energy would then intuitively feel repellent
I understand, and I will not continue trying to control and force people to change their ways anymore- but I also am developing protective healthy boundaries so as to not encourage unhealthy behaviors either
