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I will remind myself here that I have the right to make my own decisions about how I use the inheritance, and I don't owe anyone an explanation or justification for those decisions.

Med said: 

I will remind myself here that I have the right to make my own decisions about how I use the inheritance, and I don't owe anyone an explanation or justification for those decisions.

 Idk, you're bipolar and have shown poor decision-making maybe the trust is better for you...or a conservatorship? 

Med said: 

AppleGenius said: 

Lenalee said: 

It's the same thing she does to others here, one misspelled word and she's on you for the rest of the thread. She can handle it.

The reason she feels like an orphan is because she's purposely damaged all her familial relationships.she wasn't shun, she does not actively engage with them because she believes they're 'dumb' money while she hides behind her father's background and genius. She only talked to her auntie when she wanted something from her, connections and networking and unfortunately for med she's very transparent when she attempts to manipulate others, though not by choice. 

If she feels like an orphan, it's because she sees others only as things to be used and cares about too much about money.

But we agree that she did not mean it literally, which was my point. I don't really care about the other speculations too much, at least for now.

Because she knows I'm not an orphan and she only brings up the foster care situation with me when she feels cornered.  She does look down on blue collar workers and this wouldn't be the first time she does it.

@Med:

(a) Did you bring up the foster care situation with Lenalee because you felt cornered?
(b) Do you look down on blue collar workers?

Inheritance is a legal right that is recognized in many countries, including the United States.

Unrelated entirely, does not answer his questions. 

Since I am being scrutinized for inheriting money from my parents it’s important to remember where others come from which may inform such criticism. 

No you aren't, you're being scrutinized for deeming the person who's been bankrolling you Incompetent like a total parasite. 

Them holding money away from you to only have in selected amounts is why it hasn't been tapped dry. You will spend every penny if it is 100% in your hands and question wtf happened only after the fact. 

Med said:

Also my mom’s familial relationships with me are strained through no fault of my own. There’s a lot you don’t know. For example my mother’s sister and she are 11 years apart.

They ought to declare you incompetent instead honestly, if they haven't already. 

How is it no fault of your own though, did your mother abuse you or something by drowning you in hard cash? 

Med said: 

I will remind myself here that I have the right to make my own decisions about how I use the inheritance, and I don't owe anyone an explanation or justification for those decisions.

Did you forget or something? 

Lol Med's been reduced to talking to herself. 

You are entitled to your opinions and for that I thank you? 

Med said: 

You are entitled to your opinions and for that I thank you? 

If you really want to thank us, try reading and responding to it. 

So what kind of abuse did your mother put you through, since you seem to have a story about that that justifies your actions apparently? 

Med said: 

As for how I am using the money, it is my decision to make, and I am using it in a way that I believe would make my parents proud. I hope you can understand and respect my choices

I don't actually, what spending have you done that they would have pride in? 

Serious question, as I don't see it myself. 

Lenalee said: 

Med said: 

I will remind myself here that I have the right to make my own decisions about how I use the inheritance, and I don't owe anyone an explanation or justification for those decisions.

 Idk, you're bipolar and have shown poor decision-making maybe the trust is better for you...or a conservatorship? 

 Good idea

AppleGenius said: 

natasha87 said: 

i don't think anyone is trying to make her look like an idiot,

But do you understand why it might seem that way to people and do you know what I'm referring to?

An example is that oprhan thing. As dld explained, she was saying she feels like an orphan, because she's shun by her family, and she didn't literally mean she's an orphan. Setting aside whether she should be 'allowed' to say she's an orphan, I think everyone knows that she didn't mean it literally. Yet people like TC seem to insist she meant it literally, like she doesn't understand basic English vocabulary, and harp on that.

 

i think some are shocked/disgusted at the elitist attitude she takes towards ppl at the slightest inconvenience, even after they have spent a while try to help and support her.

In what ways? I haven't seen any elitist attitude so far. She said fots is a blue collar worker, but didn't imply there's anything wrong with it. She asked if lenalee is an orphan, but didn't specify why she was asking that. It seems to me more that people are assuming she has an elitist attitude because she went to law school and her being proud of what she's accomplished doesn't fit the narrative that people have, that she's a loser, and it annoys them that they can't put her down and make her acknowledge what others think her social status should be. It seems to me that people are just egging her on to say she's a loser and a failure.

She's been factual, most of the time. I have mostly seen her say that she doesn't look down on people, contrary to the picture of her others are painting.

As a simple exercise, why don't you connect the dots about her question to lenalee if she was an orphan with how she has an elitist attitude. Then we can see if she confirms whether what you think she thinks is what she actually thinks or not. Should be a simple test of your hypothesis, and if you're right, then I'll acknowledge it and join in on your bullying. If you are wrong, you acknowledge it and apologize to Med. Deal?

 what has med accomplished?

she says she doesn't look down on people, and then proceeds to do nothing but look down on them. even her own family, cos they're 'dumb/new money'

she also seems to look down on jews which is weird

also how is it possible you think i'm bullying her?