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My version of that saga is completely different than what the story is now. I think everyone knew, but maybe I knew in depth since while it was happening I would talk to both you and Emily about it in PM's. Heh, PM's in SC. So Luna probably knows as much as I do lol.
How is it different tony? It's okay your cool
Well.
Back then you were the one chasing Emily. You were enamoured with her for some reason. It did take quite a bit of effort on your behalf before you and Emily briefly online dated. It's blurry at this point, but I believe you and Emily must have lasted 3 days, maybe it ended within a week. It was very fast and not much came of it.
It lasted longer, a couple weeks the first time. The first relationship itself yes. But the sexual blackmail did not and I didn't say anything because I was embarrassed as hell and ashamed. I did tell allister and br this later though because they were my sexual partners.
I don't know what you and Emily did behind the scenes. You say she tricked you into sending her nudes or masturbating for the camera. That's new.
Its new publicly, but yeah as I said earlier I have told allister in the past a couple years ago.
I recall advising against dating Emily,
Yes, you did. I should have listened but I was an idiot.
but since you insisted I did drop some strict guidelines for maintaining a relationship with Emily ( sounds funny I know ). Those who don't understand the borderline mindset, will get destroyed and left bewildered. They carry so much weight, they'll come across as self absorbed, so when Emily broke it off,
It was actually me who broke it off for various reasons despite Emily's claims the first time, but the second time yes it was her. Don't even remember who ended what but I know we took turns as the toxic roller coaster continued on and off god knows how long. We were a bit on and off and friends with benefits in the middle.
you might have felt discarded like used toilet paper, and that feeling could be still hitting you today.
Tbh, I don't care about that part. For example I'm not like this with other relationships where the same occured, such as allister. I don't do this to him because he didn't lie about his age to me when I was a minor, or blackmail me. Actually I was never even a minor with him at all so it's completely different. If it were simply a matter of pettiness I would accuse allister of being a creep too, but I never did did it? I have never accused anyone else on this forum of doing that to me.
We're talking BPD1 plus the work of angels and demons. If you look, you'll find people talking about their experiences with those types of people, you really have to know what you're dealing with to sustain.
How so?
In short, you chased Emily intensely, it lasted a short while and it was Emily who broke it off. It was also the first of 3 times I've seen Emily get serious.
Yes. But there was a lot behind the scenes and we were very on and off for longer than that. Although just because we were not saying we were together this whole time does not mean there was not any sexual activity tbh.
In Ohio and Hawaii, the age of consent is 16 years old so if you want to make this a legal matter against Emily, it'll be like burning money, except worse cause you'll also be wasting time, it would leave quite a stain.
Sadly you are correct
Just remember. Emily is pretty crazy and has the emotional capacity of a toddler. Whatever it is that happened, you could've overruled her.
How so?
Better to let it go in my opinion. Or if it makes you feel better then keep beating her, but I don't think that will help.
Honestly you don't know the full extent of what she did, and I get where you are coming from but if you were in my shoes you would want revenge too dude.
