it's easier to succeed by being unique about your approach
be what others aren't; look where they don't
Going against the grain is hard but Nah what you want to be is exceptional. You don’t want to be just like everyone else. You want to be in the upper echelon, in the cohort of the smartest and the most attractive.
that's a pretty disordered way of thinking. 'YOU HAVE TO BE THE BEST AT ALL TIMES AND BETTER THAN OTHERS, CONSTANTLY COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS'
sounds exhausting and depressing, what are you trying to prove?
Going against the grain is hard but Nah what you want to be is exceptional. You don’t want to be just like everyone else. You want to be in the upper echelon, in the cohort of the smartest and the most attractive.
that's a pretty disordered way of thinking. 'YOU HAVE TO BE THE BEST AT ALL TIMES AND BETTER THAN OTHERS, CONSTANTLY COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS'
sounds exhausting and depressing, what are you trying to prove?
Hey friend you got it, and it is exhausting sometimes.
You don’t want to be just like everyone else.
Pretty sure most people embrace conformity.
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From my findings, people tend to find more comfort finding where they are optimized rather than climbing to the top.
This could mean a happy janitor or a studious secretary being happier than a top rank business mogul.
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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From my findings, people tend to find more comfort finding where they are optimized rather than climbing to the top.
This could mean a happy janitor or a studious secretary being happier than a top rank business mogul.
Not me
From my findings, people tend to find more comfort finding where they are optimized rather than climbing to the top.
This could mean a happy janitor or a studious secretary being happier than a top rank business mogul.Not me
Why do you think that is? Why not aim to be the cog nestled comfortably in the machine, rather than the top honcho?
Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
From my findings, people tend to find more comfort finding where they are optimized rather than climbing to the top.
This could mean a happy janitor or a studious secretary being happier than a top rank business mogul.Not me
Why do you think that is? Why not aim to be the cog nestled comfortably in the machine, rather than the top honcho?
sounds defeatist and boring. for losers, not winners