I am not a Sociopath but I think I resemble a sociopath in that I can seen by some people who would otherwise be described best as "touchy feely" as uncaring.
I would say this is because I am foremost logical, rational in my operation. I pride myself on my ability to communicate well and have no patience for people with disorganized affect. (I will get right to the point in a business transaction and steer the conversation, but ideally this suits the purposes of both parties involved.) Again, for my means I subordinate emotion. I am direct. Some would laud this my talent but not everyone can handle it.
On the other hand I can be quite ruminative about relationships. But I think I seek out the emotionally unavailable, which turns on the condition of my para-sociopathy and rare for me to introspect so.
One could put you in a prison of tempered glass and tell vast observers, "Look at her, a real sociopath" and nothing you say or do will sway the observers to think you're not.
Some of your attributes seem sociopathic.