Men. A sex that in it's natural state will devote his entire life to caring for another being simply because he finds her beautiful - just fucking amazing. And then he creates a life with her and loves her and then he devoted even more to that life he created with her- wow
Thats so sweet, I dont think thats true though. A lot of men arent that naive or kind
If kindness alone is all it took for a woman's respect, men would be saints.
I think the expression goes: "You get more flies with honey than vinegar".
Yet badboys score more than nice guys. That's reality.
People like a partner with a head of their own, unless they're narcs or something, and they enjoy when something appears novel and potentially even counter-culture against the things they already hate, but the modern Badboy's just Red Pill bullshit.
There's no separating one's details and other attributes. As a man though, you won't fare well if you're a codependent bum.
Honey > Vinegar, prove me wrong.
Is that black and white thinking ?
What's Badboy Chris Brown up to these days ? Do you think he'd score as much if it weren't for his status ?
The high value man IS the honey. The useless ones is simply hugs and kisses. I never made the rules, it's biologically coded.
I reckon we're forced to do things differently. Men are loved based on our output.
That is such a sad and transactional view.
People can love eachother for eachother, like their quirks and sunken investments, their memories spent fondly together hardening a bond. Speaking as someone who's never had a high output, and considering your views over my gender for the sake of the argument, I'd say I serve as an exception to your rule.
Well you're not young anymore and you're single. You have another hard life lesson on the way.
I'm not really worried about it, partners have a way of happening on their own rather than me having to force it, and after having spent very little time single over the past few decades I actually find the quiet kind of nice for a change.
The wind blows differently as we age.
If I get older with enough working out for me by then, I might even try my hand as a single parent.
Seems like you're baiting me into laughing now. Good luck acquiring a child when they check you out. They don't just hand children over to single men, in practice that's a bad idea.
In the case of Delora and BR. She loves him more, the more he mans up. The better man he becomes she will appreciate it. If BR declines that will distress Delora.
You are jumping to conclusions without the entire story, but I suppose that's polite in her case.
She said so herself. He's improved significantly compared to before and she's very pleased with him. This is basic stuff.
