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 Chapo is a victim of stalking, no dispute there.

Med is a victim of intense mental illness, but also an offender. Her situation does not excuse her behavior, just like a victim of molestation growing into an abuser is not exused for their actions.

Med admitting she has a problem and seeking help would be the best case scenario for both of them, but I don't see that happening. Overall Chapo is the ultimate victim of the situation.

Him being willing to unblock her for a set price range he knows she's willing to pay kind of has me not seeing him as any kind of victim, it's him extorting the mentally ill once he could just be done with it. 

I'm still reserving my vote for a little bit in case I change my mind. 

Turncoat said: 

Him being willing to unblock her for a set price range he knows she's willing to pay kind of has me not seeing him as any kind of victim, it's him extorting the mentally ill once he could just be done with it. 

I'm still reserving my vote for a little bit in case I change my mind. 

 Chapo works in fast food. Prostitutes don't have to like the johns. While I think it is cruel of him I also understand the temptation and why he gives in. If  Chapo was upper middle class (Of his own ability, not his parents) I think we would see this going differently.

Hey Chapo, if you made 80K a year would you still accept 2k/5k from med to talk to see/ sleep with her?

PalePeach said: 

Turncoat said: 

Him being willing to unblock her for a set price range he knows she's willing to pay kind of has me not seeing him as any kind of victim, it's him extorting the mentally ill once he could just be done with it. 

I'm still reserving my vote for a little bit in case I change my mind. 

Chapo works in fast food. Prostitutes don't have to like the johns. While I think it is cruel of him I also understand the temptation and why he gives in. If  Chapo was upper middle class (Of his own ability, not his parents) I think we would see this going differently.

 

Hey Chapo, if you made 80K a year would you still accept 2k/5k from med to talk to see/ sleep with her?

This however does kind of forfeit him being any kind of victim, unless you are lumping all working stiffs into the victim category. 

PalePeach said: 

Turncoat said: 

Him being willing to unblock her for a set price range he knows she's willing to pay kind of has me not seeing him as any kind of victim, it's him extorting the mentally ill once he could just be done with it. 

I'm still reserving my vote for a little bit in case I change my mind. 

 Chapo works in fast food. Prostitutes don't have to like the johns. While I think it is cruel of him I also understand the temptation and why he gives in. If  Chapo was upper middle class (Of his own ability, not his parents) I think we would see this going differently.

 

Hey Chapo, if you made 80K a year would you still accept 2k/5k from med to talk to see/ sleep with her?

 I’d imagine prices would go up at the very least.

If my memory serves me, Chapo has a thyroid issue ( or something ) and has to take Meds to stay alive. This is why I say money is more important to Chapo, it's critically vital. 

We know that Chapo once liked Med. Med at the time, her game was to bush off guys who chased her, and of course she did that to Chapo.

Granted Chapo once proposed to her, what might be the cause of his refusal to hook up with Med at all ? Could it be deep rooted revenge ? CS did him worse and still has Chapo whipped.

I once told Med if her and Chapo married he'd beat her and have other affairs, and she'd probably be unhappy and wrathful toward Chapo. 

At this point she would eventually turn on Chapo for all the times he pushed her away. She doesn't accept that reality. 

It could be a fatal attraction. 

I don't think Chapo get's to claim victim, because he's exchanged money for services. He'll play Pocket monster with her, and they seem to be having a nice time. 

It seems Med has gotten a little wiser in her approach and hasn't been giving Chapo anything for some time. Blocking Med could potentially be profitable. In doing so Chapo will be setting new limits to how far Med will go which marks her state of being. He'll solicit her weekly to see if she'll pay the toll.

The spiritual implications for Med is a hard lesson for her vast ignorance, which clearly is an issue of hers and is being challenged/exhausted, perfectly. Literally perfectly. She needs Chapo to mistreat her or else she'll never get real and evolve. 

For Chapo his reward is granted in money and nothing more. There's a good deed behind what he's doing, and when Med stops, so should he, or else the hard lesson will be on him.

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It's funny. People go for partners out of their league, in the same way we enjoy the worst foods. Whatever is offputting to Chapo about Med outweighs the pros, which is, she'll give him whatever he wants and do everything in her limited power to make him into a Father, plus share her fortune, but that simply isn't enough. In turn Chapo chases after women who deny him of those things, plus it's not a good idea to procreate with CS.

Turncoat said: 

PalePeach said: 

Turncoat said: 

Him being willing to unblock her for a set price range he knows she's willing to pay kind of has me not seeing him as any kind of victim, it's him extorting the mentally ill once he could just be done with it. 

I'm still reserving my vote for a little bit in case I change my mind. 

Chapo works in fast food. Prostitutes don't have to like the johns. While I think it is cruel of him I also understand the temptation and why he gives in. If  Chapo was upper middle class (Of his own ability, not his parents) I think we would see this going differently.

 

Hey Chapo, if you made 80K a year would you still accept 2k/5k from med to talk to see/ sleep with her?

This however does kind of forfeit him being any kind of victim, unless you are lumping all working stiffs into the victim category. 

The biggest histironic crybaby who cried about getting "raped" suddenly has an opinion

smh

I’ve had a stalker and had to, amongst other things, change my number, delete all social media, cut off some mutual friends who were still giving him info and literally move house (wasn’t 100% because of him but it was a factor) and I’m still looking over my shoulder when going back to the neighbourhood which I still love and where I lived for years. 

One tactic I didn’t try was continuing to chat to him for hours about Pokemon Go 

Gypsy said: 

One tactic I didn’t try was continuing to chat to him for hours about Pokemon Go 

Chapo has demonstrated issues with self control when it comes to responding to things about his hobbies and money. 

That being said, before even having a block feature he's already putting price tags and conditionals on unblocking her, with all the room in the world to reblock, knowing she'll continue to throw thousands of dollars at him.

He is unwilling to throw away free money to the point of extorting a stalker, this is clearly not a victim anymore.