Its hard to think that all that has taken place and will take place could happen without there being some mental condition. After all, its your thought processes and behaviors that have led you to this state. A state of unhappiness, loneliness, and where your own goals cannot manifest in actuality.
These cycles could most definitely be assigned some sort of disorder, there's clearly processing problems even when it comes to her use of language and her inability to take in what others say beyond appropriating portions into poorly executed catchphrases. As readily as looking at her try to make memes displays some strange complications that I don't really see out of your average person.
What is mistaken at first glance for being stubborn is closer to a ton of coping mechanisms that stem from the timeframe of when her father died, she's stuck in loops and not in ways typical out of a tragedy. It takes a certain set of predisposed conditions to fall into this, you couldn't just throw anyone into it, and her issues have legitimately gotten in the way of her getting work. If she did not have the privilege of her family's wealth her disorder would be three times as apparent.
She has shown a struggle with picking up new things over needing everything to have a concrete detailing to them, hard rules like that of chess rather than wiggly ones like that of socializing with her learning strategy being sheer repetition as reinforcement, like training a dog, but coupled with a fear of failure that makes her not try. She lacks a means of learning that we otherwise take for granted from her taking people in too vaguely to model off of, yielding deficiencies in sympathy and empathy not over pure callousness but over thought disturbances when trying to encode experiences.
If she were to try to play the games we do or talk about the things we talk about, she would have to work five times harder than we do to accomplish it.
Edit: She has also been put into the ward before, there is that.
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