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Why do some users here try to dictate what other people believe ?


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umm excuse me ?  since when do you have the authority to tell another person what they believe,  what they feel,  what their thoughts and intentions are,  and what their beliefs are,  and whether or not they are joking about something ?

 

every single person is different and unique and has a different and unique mind and way of processing stuff,  what makes you think that you have the right and should be taken seriously when you are trying to invalidate what someone else is saying their experience of life and their inner truths and beliefs and intentions are ?

 

who are you to decide what is true and what is false about everything that they say and expect them to take you seriously ?  It is not your place or your right,  only the person in the mind of that person knows what they genuinely think and believe and feel and what they genuinely have believed and thought and felt their entire life  you are responsible for yourself and you cannot control anyone else or dictate anyone else's experience of life and beliefs for them

 

learn to accept this,  because you have serious issues if you cannot

 

 

last edit on 11/2/2022 11:57:24 PM
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and by the way I know that this might blow your mind or something,  but people jokingly posting stuff on an anonymous forum under random usernames is a lot different than them posting stuff on their Irl social media accounts and putting their Irl name behind it

 

 

last edit on 11/2/2022 11:57:50 PM
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I personally would not believe anything that anyone told me on an anonymous forum like this and would assume that everyone is joking around and larping and sometimes talking about psychology stuff,  I mean that is essentially the vibe of this place is it not ?

 

I suppose that I do not understand the mindset of someone who would believe otherwise

 

 

last edit on 11/2/2022 11:58:08 PM
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but I suppose that I do not really appreciate my beliefs and opinions being invalidated and dictated over unless it is by a therapist or a life coach that I am specifically asking then to do this with me about certain beliefs or opinions  (like asking a qualified professional to teach me dbt skills or positive affirmations for example),  and allowing such does not seem like healthy boundaries to me soo I hope that no one else is allowing unqualified people to do this without permission to them in their lives either

 

 

last edit on 11/2/2022 11:58:29 PM
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I can have an opinion on your opinions and that's my opinion.

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cx3 said: 

I can have an opinion on your opinions and that's my opinion.

 

^  yeah but that does not mean that you are correct or that you should expect myself to take you more seriously than my own self when you are an anonymous stranger to me and I did not ask for your opinion  and it is not really about "can" it is more about-  a person who is trying to invalidate and dictate over another person's beliefs and opinions without permission is not really exemplifying healthy boundaries and healthy relationship skills

 

 

last edit on 11/2/2022 11:58:49 PM
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like do not try to tell me that my present beliefs and opinions are not my present beliefs and opinions-  that is called "gaslighting" and is a form of psychological abuse

 

and if you want to call anything that I said on here lying then you can call everything that I have said on here lying-  because I already confessed that I had created a fake persona specifically for this forum that I used to joke around with and sometimes still do

 

 

last edit on 11/2/2022 11:59:10 PM
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You need to consider many sources of information. Then determine what you think. This place is just one source. Important decisions require many sources. No one person or place should influence you. Do your own research. Not sure why I have to tell you this.

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LiYang said: 

You need to consider many sources of information. Then determine what you think. This place is just one source. Important decisions require many sources. No one person or place should influence you. Do your own research. Not sure why I have to tell you this.

 

umm I am asking a question specifically relating to the behavior of some of the members of this forum,  maybe you did not read the thread title  I can ask outside sources about why they would behave this way but I also would like to hear from themselves why they behave this way

 

 

last edit on 11/2/2022 11:59:34 PM
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Why said: 
LiYang said: 

You need to consider many sources of information. Then determine what you think. This place is just one source. Important decisions require many sources. No one person or place should influence you. Do your own research. Not sure why I have to tell you this.

 

umm I am asking a question specifically relating to the behavior of some of the members of this forum,  maybe you did not read the thread title  I can ask outside sources about why they would behave this way but I also would like to hear from themselves why they behave this way

 

 

 Why does it matter how they behave? Take care of your own self.

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