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Turncoat said: 

Lol I highly doubt he blocked you, but if you're feeling game we could bet something on it. 

you are behaving very spiritually immature,  this is not really something to joke around or bet on  ask him yourself and I completely forgave him

another lesson to teach is that you do not even need to tell someone that you forgive them,  it is actually freeing yourself by forgiving someone else and it is fine to do it personally on your own without ever needing to let the other person know unless it feels appropriate or the person actually apologizes to you-  I just happened to let buttered toast know in this circumstance

I believe that I personally excel at both forgiving other people and apologizing if I do anything that upsets other people and also explaining why I was upset  If I was going to rate myself I would give myself at least an A but probably an A+ compared to most people  :)

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lol I highly doubt he blocked you, but if you're feeling game we could bet something on it. 

you are behaving very spiritually immature,  this is not really something to joke around or bet on  ask him yourself and I completely forgave him

I am talking about the him blocking you thing, and your post of your PMs just further confirms to me that you apologized to a blank wall. 

another lesson to teach is that you do not even need to tell someone that you forgive them

You do if you want them to be aware of it. 

I believe that I personally excel at both forgiving other people and apologizing if I do anything that upsets other people and also explaining why I was upset  If I was going to rate myself I would give myself at least an A but probably an A+ compared to most people  :)

I really don't see you as the forgiving type, or when you do you immediately act on the same behavior you just apologized over. 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lol I highly doubt he blocked you, but if you're feeling game we could bet something on it. 

you are behaving very spiritually immature,  this is not really something to joke around or bet on  ask him yourself and I completely forgave him

I am talking about the him blocking you thing, and your post of your PMs just further confirms to me that you apologized to a blank wall. 

another lesson to teach is that you do not even need to tell someone that you forgive them

You do if you want them to be aware of it. 

I believe that I personally excel at both forgiving other people and apologizing if I do anything that upsets other people and also explaining why I was upset  If I was going to rate myself I would give myself at least an A but probably an A+ compared to most people  :)

I really don't see you as the forgiving type, or when you do you immediately act on the same behavior you just apologized over. 

please do not cherrypick,  what I said was "another lesson to teach is that you do not even need to tell someone that you forgive them, it is actually freeing yourself by forgiving someone else and it is fine to do it personally on your own without ever needing to let the other person know unless it feels appropriate or the person actually apologizes to you- I just happened to let buttered toast know in this circumstance"

sometimes in the case of people who are dead or uncontactable or other circumstances it is better to keep that you forgave them to yourself,  the rest of what you wrote is projection on your behalf and also it is not my responsibility that buttered toast did not respond,  all my responsibility was is to say exactly what I did to him  :)

I again am still rating myself at an A+ on forgiveness  :)

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

compassionatequeen said: 

Turncoat said: 

Lol I highly doubt he blocked you, but if you're feeling game we could bet something on it. 

you are behaving very spiritually immature,  this is not really something to joke around or bet on  ask him yourself and I completely forgave him

I am talking about the him blocking you thing, and your post of your PMs just further confirms to me that you apologized to a blank wall. 

another lesson to teach is that you do not even need to tell someone that you forgive them

You do if you want them to be aware of it. 

I believe that I personally excel at both forgiving other people and apologizing if I do anything that upsets other people and also explaining why I was upset  If I was going to rate myself I would give myself at least an A but probably an A+ compared to most people  :)

I really don't see you as the forgiving type, or when you do you immediately act on the same behavior you just apologized over. 

 

please do not cherrypick,  what I said was "another lesson to teach is that you do not even need to tell someone that you forgive them, it is actually freeing yourself by forgiving someone else and it is fine to do it personally on your own without ever needing to let the other person know unless it feels appropriate or the person actually apologizes to you- I just happened to let buttered toast know in this circumstance"

 

sometimes in the case of people who are dead or uncontactable or other circumstances it is better to keep that you forgave them to yourself,  the rest of what you wrote is projection on your behalf and also it is not my responsibility that buttered toast did not respond,  all my responsibility was is to say exactly what I did to him  :)

 

I again am still rating myself at an A+ on forgiveness  :)

 

 

anyway,  even though I think that I am good at forgiving  (but not encouraging)   other people's harmful behaviors towards me,  what is more important to me is teaching other people to unconditionally love and be forgiving of theirselves-  because how you interact with yourself is going to influence how you interact with other people,  so it is important to start with yourself first

I will be quite honest,  I believe that if someone is continously offending you or did something so seriously offensive to you that you do not want them close to you emotionally or physically,  then I support putting up healthy boundaries and even going no contact with those people-  and this does not mean that you are holding a grudge and not forgiving them,  it means that you are protecting yourself and this is very healthy and all therapists will tell you this  but I believe in always forgiving them because forgiving frees yourself to move on and not continue consciously and often subconsciously ruminating on past abuse

this is something new that I started practicing actually because of my temporary conversion to christianity soo about a year and a half ago and it is something that I will continue practicing for the rest of my life-  being forgiving of myself and other people

and on the topic of being unconditionally loving-  I believe in always being unconditionally loving of yourself and this will help you behave more compassionately towards other people-  but the reality is that as human beings we are vulnerable to our quality of life being diminished or even our lives being completely taken away as a result of psychological,  verbal and physical abuse soo it is very important that we all take protective measures against this and while we can still continue to love and think compassionate thoughts towards people that we have decided to emotionally and physically distance ourselves from-  we should not encourage their abusive behavior towards ourselves by staying in relationships with people who treat us with such disrespect that it is causing us to become depressed and develop anxiety,  or become physically damaged and soo on-  this is just realistic and practical for being a human being with a human mind and a human body-  we might be spiritual beings holding divinity within us in human bodies but we are still responsible to take care of our psychological and emotional and physical wellbeing and I cannot draw attention to the importance of this enough-  it is sooo important