no you're not, all that I have been talking about the pat few years was living with my ex and then living in Los Angeles and then living in different air bnbs and roommate situations and you know it, cope harder If I said anything about living with my mother at all the past couple years you would be able to find a post about that easily cope
You mentioned being in and out of there and spending her money to a concerning degree.
you are specifically trying to make your situation not look codependent af by trying to accuse me of being on the same level of codependency as you and I am just not, soo cope with the fact that you have codependency issues and yet still had a past relationship with someone that you considered a significant other and stop being hypocritical
Why would I care if my situation looked codependent though?