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unconditionally loving ourselves might just be the answer


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to stop soo much of this anger and hatred from self destructing ourselves and being harmful towards other people and ultimately just fucking ourselves over time and time again  war after freaking war  Idk I am sick of all of the anger and hatred in this world,  what about y'all ?  I am choosing to forgive everyone and also just remain in unconditional love vibes because Idk what else to fo without adding more (unnecessary and ultimately sabotaging in my opinion)  anger and hatred into humanity and the world

 

 

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I dunno I seem fine without it, or at the very least it wouldn't change anything productive. 

I can understand why you feel like you might need this but it's not really for everyone, is it? 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
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It definitely is supposed to be for everyone,  the world would be a much better place as the Beatles so eloquently sang it

 

 

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It definitely is supposed to be for everyone,  the world would be a much better place as the Beatles so eloquently sang it

How would it be better though? I can see all sorts of problems happening if it became more of a widespread sociological model. 

I believe in love, but the conditions for it are important. If I did not differentiate then it would mean nothing towards the things that truly deserve it, that earned that right. 

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
last edit on 10/9/2022 5:17:07 PM
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"productive" =/= "healthy",  you can produce anything but that does not mean that you should

 

 

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there should never be conditions on giving and receiving love,  but there should be legal consequences for toxic behavior

 

 

last edit on 10/9/2022 5:18:53 PM
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I don't see it as healthy in the long term as a widespread phenomenon either. I see how it can help those who are looking for that, but that isn't what everyone needs. 

For myself for example, I think love is earned, and I appreciate how it stands out from those with the means of making it happen. It's through relativity that things can be given meaning, knowing I like one thing more than another matters. 

"If everything is _________, then nothing is."

Ę̵̚x̸͎̾i̴͚̽s̵̻͐t̷͐ͅe̷̯͠n̴̤̚t̵̻̅i̵͉̿a̴̮͊l̵͍̂ ̴̹̕D̵̤̀e̸͓͂t̵̢͂e̴͕̓c̸̗̄t̴̗̿ï̶̪v̷̲̍é̵͔
last edit on 10/9/2022 5:20:35 PM
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I am going to continually be siding with the Beatles on this one  :)

 

 

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Imagine
John Lennon

Imagine there's no heaven
It's easy if you try
No hell below us
Above us only sky
Imagine all the people
Living for today, I

Imagine there's no countries
It isn't hard to do
Nothing to kill or die for
And no religion too
Imagine all the people
Living life in peace

You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will be as one

Imagine no possessions
I wonder if you can
No need for greed or hunger
A brotherhood of man
Imagine all the people
Sharing all the world, you

You may say I'm a dreamer
But I'm not the only one
I hope someday you'll join us
And the world will live as one
 

 

 

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