this is why you do not have fantasy online relationships with people because behind the scenes, behind whatever "image" of themselves they are presenting to you, who knows what they are actually like
and there is a specific person that I had a fantasy about and now his friend group is actually coming out about his real behavior behind the scenes and that he is a Karen and now I cannot stop imagining that person with a Karen haircut because pretty much everything about his behavior resembles a Karen 🤭😂 and I did not really see it until recently but this is why you just cannot trust the image of people that they present to you on the internet
like legit everything that is not included in the "smiling happy" pictures and the edited videos this person could act like anything, and unfortunately I have been faced with the fact that a person that I had this totally different fantasy idea about who they are as a person, is actually a Karen in real life behind the scenes and behaves as such
I am kind of shook I genuinely feel like I have been catfished and Idk how to process this fully yet I mean this person is for sure a Karen, I saw video evidence of their mask slipping I suppose that there are such thing as covert Karens just like there are covert narcissists I had a fantasy about a person who was actually a covert Karen Irl