i hate my home life, im going to move in with my boyfriend soon hopefully but i cant wait, i just want to leave . my mom takes my kindness for granted and orders me around even when i am kind to her, i can leave at will but she made me financially dependent on her
How financially dependent? How bad would it be to leave? How much of a sacrifice?
Dependent as in i have no idea how to do things on my own, i had a job once but it was through one of my moms friends, i have no idea how to get a job and the economy is shit so I'm waiting for my moms inheritance maybe , i don't know how to renew my passport or do any legal work because my mom always does shit for me and never let me learn . So I'm dependent on her
How financially dependent? How bad would it be to leave? How much of a sacrifice?
Dependent as in i have no idea how to do things on my own, i had a job once but it was through one of my moms friends, i have no idea how to get a job and the economy is shit so I'm waiting for my moms inheritance maybe , i don't know how to renew my passport or do any legal work because my mom always does shit for me and never let me learn . So I'm dependent on her
You're already asking out in this forum, I bet you can start asking people about your passport and stuff. The internet, which you have access to (obviously), is great for looking up where and what to ask. No need to feel trapped or inept; be willing to look in need of help and you will likely find people to help. There are sites and apps to apply for a job. You can look up how to make a resume; there are free resources you can find. It'll take some work, but will be worth it... If all you're saying is legit, of course. :)
If you're so dependent, I'm surprised your internet use isn't being monitored. Being on "sociopathcommunity.com" might raise some questions.
If you can get away with coming here, surely you can do the other stuff mentioned and find independence.
