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Perhaps instead of worrying about this as a gender issue, perhaps consider:

...what is good and bad about empathy itself, and just worry about finding that wherever it is you're looking.  Just because one has "more", doesn't mean it's the case on an individual basis or all the other qualities of it you're looking for in that person.  More of a "bad thing" (unwanted) is still bad (unwanted).  Sheesh.

Yeah,  I mean it is good that I am not looking for a savior in an empathyless person anymore though is the point that I was trying to make

JesusistheKing said: 

Yeah,  I mean it is good that I am not looking for a savior in an empathyless person anymore though is the point that I was trying to make

You also however deny that it has anything to do with one's chemical makeup when it comes to predispositions. 

Men are more challenged in this area, and in this case you are curious over empathetic men. If you want to find men with a stronger sense of empathy, you're going to have to go for a softer type. 

No really, I have really low empathy. I think? But how do I know this? These emotional needs are hard to understand.

luckily I do not think there is an eternal hell but gosh do you ever get sick of being in so much darkness ?