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I think that being honest instead of hiding my traumas might be the best way to approach the possibility of a better life,  although for so long I have not been open about my fears because I was scared of what would happen if people knew and if people would just take advantage of me even more if I admitted these vulnerabilities,  but I have reached a place of serious desperation within myself for something to change for the better regarding these fears that seem to dominate my life

JesusistheKing said: 

 

1)  fear of people turning on me and betraying me unexpectedly

You yourself are prone to that, and people often fear the capacity out of others for them to act like themselves. 

2)  fear of people accusing me of intentions or actions that I did not have or do and then persecuting me as if I did

This one is more complicated, as oftentimes people will be telling you the truth and then you respond this way. 

please if anyone has advice and wisdom on how to cope with the fact that I have experienced these situations,  and that I do not know how to handle these situations well without becoming severely depressed and feeling hopeless and that as a result I have isolated myself from society,  and how to hopefully stop attracting these situations into my life as a repeated pattern,  I am seeking advice and wisdom

Try visiting other people's points of view. People are allowed to be wrong, but how they came to those conclusions shows who the person underneath those ideas is. 

You need to get more in practice with listening to the words of others so that you can gain a tolerance to it. From what I can tell it seems to overstimulate you. 

JesusistheKing said: 

I think that being honest instead of hiding my traumas might be the best way to approach the possibility of a better life,  although for so long I have not been open about my fears because I was scared of what would happen if people knew and if people would just take advantage of me even more if I admitted these vulnerabilities,  but I have reached a place of serious desperation within myself for something to change for the better regarding these fears that seem to dominate my life

The real issue is a lack of listening, you have a tendency to monologue instead of opening the floor for a dialogue, and even when you do allow for the conversation you tend to assume what they meant instead of reading it or asking for clarification. 

Even when you are worshipping other people you're doing it through the lens of focusing on yourself, as I'm often having to tell you about the media of the people you're into from you not even bothering to look into them. 

Step one here is to see that while TC is criticizing you, it's a direct way for you to employ listening skills to see that it is also way to overcome these fears.  (Not as an argument, demeaning, but an appraisal to discuss.)

when i listen to mav 2.0 what am i hearing?