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Okay so like I went to the hospital. At the hospital I met a cute male nurse. I plan to go back same time next week to give him my number. Any tips ? How would you feel if you were him (hypothetically) ?

 As long as you are not chubby or even close to fat you may have a chance.

If you think you don't have a pretty face, try getting fit.

If you are fit you have 90% of success in your approach unless the man is seriously committed.

In my humble opinion now Feathers, your behavior strikes me as a girl who is not active and hardly visit the gym. You also seem to  like sugar, and will often eat treats. Pretty christian girls are usually surrounded by christian guys courting them.

But yeah if you plan to give your number to a stranger while he is working like you were back in the 90's, go for it.

last edit on 7/21/2022 8:39:41 AM
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I want to give a fair view on fat chicks. I dont think it is difficult for them. It is really not a KO criteria for many guys. I know a girl she was with her bf for 9 years and recently broke up. She is fat and not attractive and I thought ohhh she will never find someone and be very surprised. But she got many dates and fucked around for 2 months or so on bumble and now she is in a commited relationship with a former sex date. the guy is attractive, tall and at the end of med school. 

 

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the antichrist has a crush on a fat chick,  but he also has a crush on his mother soooooooooooo  nonchristian men like when women are not as "together" as they should be,  Christian men have higher standards  Is your target a Christian or a nonchristian ?  men usually prefer to do the asking out and chasing though  there is something about a passive woman who does not need them and is okay being on her own but still has an inner longing for a significant other but only the very right perfect one for her that makes them all conquesty and chasey and stuff............

 

 

last edit on 7/21/2022 3:04:52 PM
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you would think that they would appreciate it when you do all of the hard work for them but no  :p  no,  they do not  :p  (usually,  but I am not going to say always 100 percent especially this day and age when genders are confused and lines are blurred all over the place for example It is like practically a hate crime these days to say that men cannot get pregnant)

 

 

last edit on 7/21/2022 3:11:54 PM
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Gained some Covid weight sure… still think most men would want to smash (even if you don’t).


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Waltz struggles massively and heavily with many insecurities,  so when there are women who love themselves and their curviness too it can be intimidating to men like that  but men who work through their insecurities are attracted to all types of women and do not really get scared of things like big thick thighs and their woman laying on top of them and not letting them move anywhere and paralyzing them and keeping them there forever and never letting them leave  :p

 

 

last edit on 7/21/2022 6:00:07 PM
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Waltz struggles massively and heavily with many insecurities,  so when there are women who love themselves and their curviness too it can be intimidating to men like that  but men who work through their insecurities are attracted to all types of women and do not really get scared of things like big thick thighs and their woman laying on top of them and not letting them move anywhere and paralyzing them and keeping them there forever and never letting them leave  :p

Showing off 'the goods' doesn't seem very Christian either. 

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0 votes RE: Advice for asking a guy out

Waltz struggles massively and heavily with many insecurities,  so when there are women who love themselves and their curviness too it can be intimidating to men like that  but men who work through their insecurities are attracted to all types of women and do not really get scared of things like big thick thighs and their woman laying on top of them and not letting them move anywhere and paralyzing them and keeping them there forever and never letting them leave  :p

Showing off 'the goods' doesn't seem very Christian either. 

You slut shaming me for showing some cleavage ? Sorry I don’t dress like a nun. 

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Waltz struggles massively and heavily with many insecurities,  so when there are women who love themselves and their curviness too it can be intimidating to men like that  but men who work through their insecurities are attracted to all types of women and do not really get scared of things like big thick thighs and their woman laying on top of them and not letting them move anywhere and paralyzing them and keeping them there forever and never letting them leave  :p

Showing off 'the goods' doesn't seem very Christian either. 

You slut shaming me for showing some cleavage ? Sorry I don’t dress like a nun. 

I'm not a Christian, but by the terms of your religion this is you doing it wrong. 

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0 votes RE: Advice for asking a guy out

Waltz struggles massively and heavily with many insecurities,  so when there are women who love themselves and their curviness too it can be intimidating to men like that  but men who work through their insecurities are attracted to all types of women and do not really get scared of things like big thick thighs and their woman laying on top of them and not letting them move anywhere and paralyzing them and keeping them there forever and never letting them leave  :p

Showing off 'the goods' doesn't seem very Christian either. 

You slut shaming me for showing some cleavage ? Sorry I don’t dress like a nun. 

I'm not a Christian, but by the terms of your religion this is you doing it wrong. 

Lately I have been learning that Christianity has been "Man-washed". A term I made up to show men changing the interpretations of bible or suppressing parts to suit male supremacy. 

Example 1: Deborah 

Deborah was a priestess, prophet and judge. Having read the bible I noticed that Christians gloss over her as if she never existed. 

Example 2: Thecla

Thecla was a woman who self-baptized and preached in one of the lost scrolls omitted from the bible. The problem here is that early Christians actually looked up to her as a saint/apostle who travelled with Paul. There are early churches with pictures of her as a saint.

 

So now I'm considering more female positive interpretations. 

 

https://www.cbeinternational.org/resource/article/mutuality-blog-magazine/5-things-bible-does-and-doesnt-say-about-modesty

“I also want the women to dress modestly, with decency and propriety, adorning themselves, not with elaborate hairstyles or gold or pearls or expensive clothes” (1 Timothy 2:9, NIV).

“Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as elaborate hairstyles and the wearing of gold jewelry or fine clothes. Rather, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight” (1 Peter 3:3-4).

In context, Paul and Peter are addressing the same issue, and it’s not lack of body coverage. It’s excess. They appeal to women who felt the need to show everyone else in the church how much they could afford to look good. Their sin was pride.

last edit on 7/21/2022 6:41:48 PM
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