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stop shaming me for wanting to become a better person


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like Idk this is not a very encouraging and supportive environment for mental health

 

do ya'll just want to stay sick and pessimistically complaining all of the time and try to drag anyone who wants to become better back to being stuck and sick with you all ?  like Turncoat definitely exemplifies this behavior and maybe I am just now waking up to it

 

 

last edit on 6/4/2022 11:59:59 PM
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and trying to remind people of their past and what they have overcome as if they have not even overcome it,  or label people as the unhealthy habits that they are still in the process of overcoming is definitely not supportive and encouraging of mental health

 

so If wanting to become mentally healthy and happy in life is some sort of "taboo to be mocked" here............  then this is not the right community for me to be participating in

 

 

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but it is just sad  I feel bad for you all and the codependent part of me wants to rescue  but I know that only Jesus can be anyone's personal Savior  🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊✝️

 

 

last edit on 6/5/2022 12:05:54 AM
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You don't want to become a better person tho, you just want us to treat you as if you were

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I think that I am going to spend my time listening to what actual therapists who give good sound advice have to say

 

and not jealous no life haters  Idk must just be personal preference but there is a reason that this forum is not very............  popular

 

 

last edit on 6/5/2022 12:26:38 AM
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I don't see how looking for people's problem areas so they can work on it is bad. 

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I think that I am going to spend my time listening to what actual therapists who give good sound advice have to say

Except you won't, you'll watch videos meant for other people. 

You in a therapist's office would be amazing. 

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last edit on 6/5/2022 1:16:41 AM
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I think that I am going to spend my time listening to what actual therapists who give good sound advice have to say

Except you won't, you'll watch videos meant for other people. 

You in a therapist's office would be amazing. 

 

I have a very popular and well reputationed trauma therapist with a phD,  and you have known this

 

 

last edit on 6/5/2022 1:22:13 AM
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It must be amazing in there. 

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It must be amazing in there. 

 

It is,  and It is starting to be much more positive and amazing in my own internal dialogue too  👍😊😇  this is why it is wise to both act and invest your attention and time wisely  :)

 

 

last edit on 6/5/2022 1:24:46 AM
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