STOP SINNING IT IS HURTING MY FEELINGS 😥😭🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊
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You stop or ...us? Are you hurting your own feelings or are you blaming us?
BOTH It's both 💔😥😭🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🤍🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊🕊✝️
So which half is the guilt trip and which is the shaming?
It just sounds like you feel grief over the situation. It's called "The Human Condition" (and you might consider it "Original Sin"). Is this of the Holy Spirit or personal regret?
Thrall to the Wire of Self-Excited Circuit.
So which half is the guilt trip and which is the shaming?
It just sounds like you feel grief over the situation. It's called "The Human Condition" (and you might consider it "Original Sin"). Is this of the Holy Spirit or personal regret?
both 💔
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from one of the boundaries books that I am reading
Limits
Two aspects of limits stand out when it comes to creating better boundaries. The first is setting limits on others. This is the component that we most often hear about when we talk about boundaries. In reality, setting limits on others is a misnomer. We can’t do that. What we can do is set limits on our own exposure to people who are behaving poorly; we can’t change them or make them behave right.
Our model is God. He does not really “set limits” on people to “make them” behave. God sets standards, but he lets people be who they are and then separates himself from them when they misbehave, saying in effect, “You can be that way if you choose, but you cannot come into my house.” Heaven is a place for the repentant, and all are welcome.
But God limits his exposure to evil, unrepentant people, as should we. Scripture is full of admonitions to separate ourselves from people who act in destructive ways (Matt. 18:15–17; 1 Cor. 5:9–13). We are not being unloving. Separating ourselves protects love, because we are taking a stand against things that destroy love.
The other aspect of limits that is helpful when talking about boundaries is setting our own internal limits. We need to have spaces inside ourselves where we can have a feeling, an impulse, or a desire without acting it out.
We need self-control without repression. We need to be able to say no to ourselves. This includes both our destructive desires and some good ones that are not wise to pursue at a given time. Internal structure is a very important component of boundaries and identity, as well as ownership, responsibility, and self-control.
I'm going to sin.
I'm going to do it right now.
I'm gonna, you can't stop me!👎💔😥😭
You're too late, the sin is done.
Wondering if I ought to sin again, hmm...
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