Dunno, always failed this one.
At first, when seeing "surfing", of course it seemed associated with "surfing (the internet) for porn". Reassociating the word as they do might be part of the strategy, I guess.
There might be a point, though. Being "less horny" isn't necessarily what the goal has to be. What you *do* about it is. There might be some value in just *feeling* horny and attempting to "surf" that, associating with other activity than fapping it out. It certainly can be treated as an addiction. You want control back, so when you find yourself getting the urge, pay attention to this but try sitting through it or go about doing whatever else you want to do. I guess that's essentially mindfulness, but might be worth a start. You *don't* always have to do what your urges would want you to do. At least, you can also get a gauge on how distracting or strong the urges are, find the shape of the problem and so on.
Thrall to the Wire of Self-Excited Circuit.
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In fact, have you tried reading Scripture or devotionals or something instead of fapping, when you're horny?
yes and I should be doing this more
https://www.wikihow.com/Substitute-Pornography
https://www.verywellmind.com/7-ways-to-stop-watching-porn-5204044
some "feel good" and interesting things to do instead of watching porn or masturbating, which I use interchangeably because I usually do both
In fact, have you tried reading Scripture or devotionals or something instead of fapping, when you're horny?
Do you know how easy it is to accidently mix associations this way? 
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In the Bible, is porn bad?
The part where it becomes less-than Christian I'd argue is the room for people to profit off of it in the name of greed, and over how it could invite pre-marital relations, but if it were porn of two married people is it even bad?
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