@cx3 were you talking to Turncoat or I ?
thou
visceral normality
Dear god, get some dating experience before you turn into a TERF
he switches back and forth between genders
Do not.
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Insecure people will cling onto you and drag you down.
If you're the one that makes them feel insecure, they'll treat you like shit.
People tend to think, just because someone is insecure, they should be catered to and serviced with sugary treatments and sweet sounds of what they want to hear, otherwise you're an asshole. The trust is, insecure people have a need for compensation if they are to ever let go of whatever makes them as they are.
For example a little guy. Everyone else is able to run faster, and they can't reach the middle shelf. It looks funny whenever they swing their little legs to shift their weight to get off a sofa. To compensate for this insecurity, they typically have short fuses and assume a dominant role in social settings, which usually ends up backfiring on them.
The little guy doesn't know it, but being small can be a blessing. The pizzas larger, leftovers last longer. Big tits are even bigger for this guy. He might not be the first choice for a woman, but even these guys do score and when he does, he'll have a whole lot of ass to deal with.
When blessed, his insecurities might spell the end for his better days if he's unwise, but also it'll damage people around him.