THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE, come on ladies you need to start setting some standards for yourselves you have so much value in God's eyes, you are precious gems in God's eyes why are you believing lies and telling yourselves lies that you are worthless or deserve nothing better than to be treated like sh** by men stop this you are going to make me cry
You are right, men of SC, we must up the game. I propose that instead of having women pay men for sex, women should also pay a minimum of $15 an hour for the company of their king. Weather it be texting or artificial therapy, us men need to stand together against this bigotry! We deserve to be compensated for our time!
I’m not paying anyone for sex. I’m paying for him to be with me. I wouldn’t even mind if we never had sex. That’s how much I love him. I just want him to exist with me.
K but do you understand that the psychology of men is to try to chase and win women, through showing off and offering gifts
When you turn it around on them and start chasing them, they lose respect for you because they see it as "there must be something wrong with her because she does not consider herself worthy of being chased so she must not be a prize to be won"
and why this makes me sad is because all women are prizes to be won, it is just when you start subconsciously believing the lies of Satan that you are not good enough and all of these other things that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy unless you actually stop believing the lies and stop telling yourself the lies and actually start believing how valuable and loved you are in God's eyes
some women who aren't Christian for whatever reason, probably lack of abuse in their childhood or with a tendency towards remaining prideful at whatever cost go on delusionally believing that they are valuable because they are able to manipulate positive attention out of other nonchristians (the "World" so to speak) so it is possible to try to convince yourself that you are worth something just by doing like cognitive behavioral therapy and especially dialectical behavioral therapy which is supposed to have success at self-esteem building for a lot of people but honestly I think that borderline pd can only genuinely be reversed through Christianity, the success rate of borderlines in therapy is not that high although I appreciate the optimism of those nonchristians with knowledge about psychology who do not give up on the bpds
I am speaking from experience because I used to struggle with the same low self-esteem issues until I started allowing Jesus to heal my perception of myself and he began filling me with the truth of my inherent value and preciousness as one of His children
I’m not paying anyone for sex. I’m paying for him to be with me.
So it's more like an escort service?
I’m not paying anyone for sex. I’m paying for him to be with me. I wouldn’t even mind if we never had sex. That’s how much I love him. I just want him to exist with me.
K but do you understand that the psychology of men is to try to chase and win women, through showing off and offering gifts
When you turn it around on them and start chasing them, they lose respect for you because they see it as "there must be something wrong with her because she does not consider herself worthy of being chased so she must not be a prize to be won"
You are clearly not caught up to the modern age, this isn't the 50s.
I tend to be with women who come onto me, rather than the other way around, and they've courted and got me flowers and stuff and it was really sweet.
and why this makes me sad is because all women are prizes to be won
Dude they're just a person, or if you go raunchy enough they're just a hole to some.
Women are 49.6% of the human population, it's not like people can't find another one if shit goes wrong.
, it is just when you start subconsciously believing the lies of Satan that you are not good enough and all of these other things that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy unless you actually stop believing the lies and stop telling yourself the lies and actually start believing how valuable and loved you are in God's eyes
Starting to see this as projection...
Do you think women shouldn't court because you're not too great at it?
I’m not paying anyone for sex. I’m paying for him to be with me. I wouldn’t even mind if we never had sex. That’s how much I love him. I just want him to exist with me.
K but do you understand that the psychology of men is to try to chase and win women, through showing off and offering gifts
When you turn it around on them and start chasing them, they lose respect for you because they see it as "there must be something wrong with her because she does not consider herself worthy of being chased so she must not be a prize to be won"
and why this makes me sad is because all women are prizes to be won, it is just when you start subconsciously believing the lies of Satan that you are not good enough and all of these other things that it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy unless you actually stop believing the lies and stop telling yourself the lies and actually start believing how valuable and loved you are in God's eyes
some women who aren't Christian for whatever reason, probably lack of abuse in their childhood or with a tendency towards remaining prideful at whatever cost go on delusionally believing that they are valuable because they are able to manipulate positive attention out of other nonchristians (the "World" so to speak) so it is possible to try to convince yourself that you are worth something just by doing like cognitive behavioral therapy and especially dialectical behavioral therapy which is supposed to have success at self-esteem building for a lot of people but honestly I think that borderline pd can only genuinely be reversed through Christianity, the success rate of borderlines in therapy is not that high although I appreciate the optimism of those nonchristians with knowledge about psychology who do not give up on the bpds
I am speaking from experience because I used to struggle with the same low self-esteem issues until I started allowing Jesus to heal my perception of myself and he began filling me with the truth of my inherent value and preciousness as one of His children
Dude, I know my value and I know the value of love. I don’t need to be chased because I do the chasing. I get what I want and I don’t care about conventional roles or whatever. I’m not like you guys and don’t need respect. I don’t really care about what people think of me, unless they are dating me and hate me. That’s all. As long as they don’t hate me, I couldn’t care less about respect and whatever.
Specifically for About, I love him. I value love because it’s tied to my happiness. That’s why I’ve been trying to get married. I thought the love would come when I was married, but with About, I could feel love without being married and that’s a miracle. I’d pay anything for that. That’s what I’m doing. It’s not so much that he is worth it, even though he is.
It’s more that the feeling that I feel when I’m around him, or think of him, or even look at his picture, is worth the money I shall pay him. I don’t care about sex, being chased or whatever, plus, I think leaving him once and almost leaving him again is enough to be considered chased, since he’s taking me back for a reason. Although, I regret leaving him to begin with. If he didn’t like me, he wouldn’t take the money, since he almost didn’t.
i think you’re misunderstanding the situation. It’s not a med and chapo thing because Chapo’s not into med at all. About likes me and I love him. The only reason I have to pay is because I messed up and I offered to pay him for another chance. Then I offered to pay more for another chance because I messed up again.
I’m not paying anyone for sex. I’m paying for him to be with me.
So it's more like an escort service?
It’s more like I’m in love with him and he says he feels that way about me too, but I keep being mean to him and messing everything up and I left him before and almost chose Chapo over him this time. He’s not happy with me, so I have to pay for him to give me another chance. I’m in line though, so it doesn’t make me feel bad that he’s punishing me, especially since he’s my daddy so he’s supposed to punish me when I’ve been a bad girl 😜
