Her face when she was kissing him and the pleasure in her voice, that made me realize we are together for all the wrong reasons. It was a somber realization but at least we are not engaged yet (was about to propose in May, 3 year anniversary of our first date). She is with me because I tick the boxes, good looking, high paying respectable job and no debt and a guy who wants a family. On the one hand the realization that you are not enough for your partner is hurtful but its also a moment of clarity. Maybe she is lying to herself or just suppressing her real self, but we will be a disaster to be engaged and married. I am gathering enough courage for a breakup but I know in my heart its best for us both. Its not easy though as I clearly love her a lot and she also cares for me a lot but it needs to be done. Any advice on how to do it with the least amount of pain possible, because to her it will be a surprise.
Had a MMF with Gf realized we are incompatible
consumed by avarice
