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Turncoat, what are female Christians looking for when communicating


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with other female Christians ?

 

I am asking because of your psychology background, and because I am trying to figure out what I can give to other female Christians instead of what I can take

 

 

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I am assuming encouragement, acceptance, seeing them as innocent and good and not judging them (because they are in Jesus), being seen as beautiful and worthy of being treated with respect and for other people to care about their well-being and offer to help if there is anything that they need help with ?

 

 

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Turncoat, what are female Christians looking for when communicating with other female Christians ?

It's not like all Christians are the same, there's way more than just one denomination of it. While I'd argue what kind of Christianity someone follows is liable to show some patterns of commonality, it becomes harder to do that over a religion overall. 

If I were to though, I'd guess it'd be discussions over what they agree on and have in common? Religion tends to be a groupthink team sport for social politics, and Christianity especially has some strictness to it in that regard. That being said a lot of it too will be based on how deeply and seriously versus more Eclectic or Relaxed that they handle their faith. New Age types won't be the same as old school Bible Thumpers. 

I am asking because of your psychology background, and because I am trying to figure out what I can give to other female Christians instead of what I can take

I'd recommend keeping your ears open and responding to what they have to say first. Once you've established a rapport with them and are familiar enough they may respond better to your beliefs than if you were to just charge them with it at the gate. 

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this is an article I found  https://unlockingthebible.org/2016/09/12-characteristics-of-christian-friendship/

 

 

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I am used to "taking" in relationships so it is new to me to try to find ways to "give" in relationships

 

 

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Giving them your attention and listening to why they joined the faith'd be a good start imo. 

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