Is it because they are more of a challenge and not only after money and status or what ?
its because they are easier to manipulate and lack street smarts so they fall for the bad boys bs
lol especially when they are romantics at heart and obsessed with fairytales and princess stories
its because they are easier to manipulate and lack street smarts so they fall for the bad boys bs
lol especially when they are romantics at heart and obsessed with fairytales and princess stories
this only means that she is avoiding real attachments by using fantasy as a buffer between her and the guy, making her no more different than the bad boy except maybe in small behavioral differences. good girls are equally turned off by good guys and they are unsafe (they can love and get attached, triggering fear of engulfment).
if the good girl went through therapy (and followed thru instead of running) she would not be addicted to drama and the risk of being abandoned/hurt by the bad boy (source of adrenaline) so she would feel satisfied with a more "boring" guy too, as she is able to allow herself to love and be loved (source of stimulation besides drama and adrenaline)
its because they are easier to manipulate and lack street smarts so they fall for the bad boys bs
lol especially when they are romantics at heart and obsessed with fairytales and princess stories
this only means that she is avoiding real attachments by using fantasy as a buffer between her and the guy, making her no more different than the bad boy except maybe in small behavioral differences. good girls are equally turned off by good guys and they are unsafe (they can love and get attached, triggering fear of engulfment).
if the good girl went through therapy (and followed thru instead of running) she would not be addicted to drama and the risk of being abandoned/hurt by the bad boy (source of adrenaline) so she would feel satisfied with a more "boring" guy too, as she is able to allow herself to love and be loved (source of stimulation besides drama and adrenaline)
^ All true
Jesus is forcing me to go through the healing process so that I can enjoy calm and peacefulness more
its because they are easier to manipulate and lack street smarts so they fall for the bad boys bs
lol especially when they are romantics at heart and obsessed with fairytales and princess stories
this only means that she is avoiding real attachments by using fantasy as a buffer between her and the guy, making her no more different than the bad boy except maybe in small behavioral differences. good girls are equally turned off by good guys and they are unsafe (they can love and get attached, triggering fear of engulfment).
if the good girl went through therapy (and followed thru instead of running) she would not be addicted to drama and the risk of being abandoned/hurt by the bad boy (source of adrenaline) so she would feel satisfied with a more "boring" guy too, as she is able to allow herself to love and be loved (source of stimulation besides drama and adrenaline)
^ All true
Jesus is forcing me to go through the healing process so that I can enjoy calm and peacefulness more
good luck.
its because they are easier to manipulate and lack street smarts so they fall for the bad boys bs
lol especially when they are romantics at heart and obsessed with fairytales and princess stories
this only means that she is avoiding real attachments by using fantasy as a buffer between her and the guy, making her no more different than the bad boy except maybe in small behavioral differences. good girls are equally turned off by good guys and they are unsafe (they can love and get attached, triggering fear of engulfment).
if the good girl went through therapy (and followed thru instead of running) she would not be addicted to drama and the risk of being abandoned/hurt by the bad boy (source of adrenaline) so she would feel satisfied with a more "boring" guy too, as she is able to allow herself to love and be loved (source of stimulation besides drama and adrenaline)
^ All true
Jesus is forcing me to go through the healing process so that I can enjoy calm and peacefulness more
good luck.
thank you :) I just started a womens' twelve step study last week